Hi,
To cut a very long story short, me 53, she 60 and we have a great sex life. Wife has known about my desires for both of us for at least 8 years of our 22 together. We have been role playing with a dildo for around 4 years. The last couple of weeks, she seems to be getting more into the role playing with what sounded to me like more thought had gone into what she was saying. Last week, while enjoying each other, she said about having a one-night stand, not a "lover", and me picking someone for her. This weekend, in the same situation, she started saying first about wanting two mouths around her nipples and a little later about me picking someone for her and that she trusts me. We do have a blindfold and she said that she would wear it and I would tell her what to wear for the meet. She also asked if the person would like her and her body - guess my respone!
On both occasions, we had a drink of wine or two and were merry, not drunk, but uninhibited shall we say. After the first incident above, she said she didn't remember saying those things which I know not to be true and I think if I raise the second time directly, she will brush it off again.
I forgot to say! In between times, whilst out, we played a game of who's lap would she sit on. Forever, she has always said there is no-one but me that she fancies, etc., etc. This time, she actually picked someone! That was almost as big a step as I see it as the sex chat.
Any thoughts? Is this getting close and what to do to get over the line, or still some way to go, if ever?
Thanks!
To cut a very long story short, me 53, she 60 and we have a great sex life. Wife has known about my desires for both of us for at least 8 years of our 22 together. We have been role playing with a dildo for around 4 years. The last couple of weeks, she seems to be getting more into the role playing with what sounded to me like more thought had gone into what she was saying. Last week, while enjoying each other, she said about having a one-night stand, not a "lover", and me picking someone for her. This weekend, in the same situation, she started saying first about wanting two mouths around her nipples and a little later about me picking someone for her and that she trusts me. We do have a blindfold and she said that she would wear it and I would tell her what to wear for the meet. She also asked if the person would like her and her body - guess my respone!
On both occasions, we had a drink of wine or two and were merry, not drunk, but uninhibited shall we say. After the first incident above, she said she didn't remember saying those things which I know not to be true and I think if I raise the second time directly, she will brush it off again.
I forgot to say! In between times, whilst out, we played a game of who's lap would she sit on. Forever, she has always said there is no-one but me that she fancies, etc., etc. This time, she actually picked someone! That was almost as big a step as I see it as the sex chat.
Any thoughts? Is this getting close and what to do to get over the line, or still some way to go, if ever?
Thanks!
