Need advice from women about Escorts on dating sites.

btweets

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I’m a member of a couple of “dating” sites, and I’ve often felt or wondered if some of the women contacting me, are actually true legit singles looking to get together, OR if some of them are in fact Escorts?? So my question is, are there specific words or hints in their profile, or in their messages they send me, that would be an indicator to me that going out on a date with them, it was going to cost me $$ ?? I appreciate any input anyone could give me, thanks!
 

btweets

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I think those that replied with that they would be more direct, are most likely accurate. They will send me a message and immediately ask if I wanna get together and fuck right away, or have some fun, but are ready to get together today, or tonight. That makes the most sense to me and I feel kind of stupid now for asking. I guess I was just hoping that there were some real women out there that actually wanted to just hook up, same as me. Thanks again everyone, it all makes perfect sense now. Lol.
 
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I think those that replied with that they would be more direct, are most likely accurate. They will send me a message and immediately ask if I wanna get together and fuck right away, or have some fun, but are ready to get together today, or tonight. That makes the most sense to me and I feel kind of stupid now for asking. I guess I was just hoping that there were some real women out there that actually wanted to just hook up, same as me. Thanks again everyone, it all makes perfect sense now. Lol.
If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is! (the old saying) Legit girls aren't going to just message you and ask you if you want to fuck in those first contacts. That's especially double and 100% if you don't have a well written profile with plenty of pics. The lifestyle is tough to navigate but that sort of behavior is a dead giveaway of a fake, fraud or pro. You see it on here quite a bit, or at least I do. How many times does "some guy" contact me and want to get together, etc. No pics, no profile, not verified, rude, terrible communicators, etc. I just laugh. Sometimes I tell them as much. I'm certain the other girls on here get the same thing.

If it's an "escort" or prostitute you are looking for then all bets are off. Go ahead and respond to whatever they are communicating. You will get your price and details soon enough.

Mrs Hotwife
 

btweets

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If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is! (the old saying) Legit girls aren't going to just message you and ask you if you want to fuck in those first contacts. That's especially double and 100% if you don't have a well written profile with plenty of pics. The lifestyle is tough to navigate but that sort of behavior is a dead giveaway of a fake, fraud or pro. You see it on here quite a bit, or at least I do. How many times does "some guy" contact me and want to get together, etc. No pics, no profile, not verified, rude, terrible communicators, etc. I just laugh. Sometimes I tell them as much. I'm certain the other girls on here get the same thing.

If it's an "escort" or prostitute you are looking for then all bets are off. Go ahead and respond to whatever they are communicating. You will get your price and details soon enough.

Mrs Hotwife
I do have all my profile and pics up, but regardless I believe you’re absolutely correct. I’m definitely not interested in Escorts or prostitutes! Thanks Mrs. “HOT” Hotwife!
 
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I occasionally do a bit of escorting but have never tried to persuade anyone to pay that I have met via a hookup site. The difference is that when men book me as an escort they are (being blunt) not those men that I would naturally chose to be with, those I meet via a hookup site are the ones I want to meet for my own pleasure.

Don’t get me wrong I enjoy giving pleasure to the men that pay for my time, just that I have my own preferences. In fact a couple of my paying customers soon were asked to stop paying and visit more often 😀

But my point is that not all women on dating/hookup sites that work as escorts are looking for business many of us are looking for our own enjoyment or even love. I would expect any escort looking to be paid would get onto the subject of money quickly. I would be surprised if they could not get enough trade from the normal channel, my escort profile gets dozens of enquiries every day and I am a middle aged woman not a hot young girl!
 

btweets

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I occasionally do a bit of escorting but have never tried to persuade anyone to pay that I have met via a hookup site. The difference is that when men book me as an escort they are (being blunt) not those men that I would naturally chose to be with, those I meet via a hookup site are the ones I want to meet for my own pleasure.

Don’t get me wrong I enjoy giving pleasure to the men that pay for my time, just that I have my own preferences. In fact a couple of my paying customers soon were asked to stop paying and visit more often 😀

But my point is that not all women on dating/hookup sites that work as escorts are looking for business many of us are looking for our own enjoyment or even love. I would expect any escort looking to be paid would get onto the subject of money quickly. I would be surprised if they could not get enough trade from the normal channel, my escort profile gets dozens of enquiries every day and I am a middle aged woman not a hot young girl!
Thank you for your insight!
 
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I’m a member of a couple of “dating” sites, and I’ve often felt or wondered if some of the women contacting me, are actually true legit singles looking to get together, OR if some of them are in fact Escorts?? So my question is, are there specific words or hints in their profile, or in their messages they send me, that would be an indicator to me that going out on a date with them, it was going to cost me $$ ?? I appreciate any input anyone could give me, thanks!
Just check out how many are on the list that they are responding to.
 
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