My New Year's resolution this year is to have our first hotwife experience...
A little background.
My wife and I have been married for almost 9 years. I am Caucasian, mid 40s and she is Black African, mid 30s. I brought the subject of hotwifing and MFM threesomes up to her since about a month or two after we started dating. She thought both ideas were extremely weird but she was open to talk about it in the sense that she would let me get it out in the open what I had to say but then reject the idea of both. She has always maintained that she would not do it but then she will say or do things that cause me to believe she just might.
She will make comments about other men and how they look. Talk about their physique and how good of shape they are in. One time we were walking through Central Park, she noticed a guy in sweatpants and made a comment about how big his dick was. She must have seen the bulge. I asked her if she wanted me to ask the guy to come to our house but she said no.
She will make the comment about a woman who is fucking a black man, that she (the woman) wants him because of his big dick. She has at times said how black men have bigger dicks than white men. One time we were watching porn and she made a comment about how small the guy's dick was. I told her the guy's dick is about my size and she tried to convince me that mine was bigger but the guy's dick was literally about my size.
Several years ago, she went out with two female friends and one of the female friends ex-boyfriend. One of the female friends made a video of her dancing with another guy...I asked her to. It doesn't show in the video but she said to our friends "I think I found my next husband" referring to the man she was dancing with. The video shows her grinding her ass on the man's cock and it is a huuuuuuuuuge turn on for me. The man also has his hands all over her hips and it looks like they slip to her ass. This was end of 2019. When I jerk off, I use that video as motivation. My wife knows that I jerk off while watching the video and says that she finds it weird that I would use that video when I jerk off.
I bought a 10 inch cock sleeve and her reaction when I fuck her with it is way more intense than when I'm fucking her with my own dick. Again though, a complete turn on. After she cums, it doesn't take me but a hot second to bust a nut. I am usually the one initiating the use of it but she has initiated it a few times. I can't remember when the last time was that we used it but we don't use it that often. I bring it up once in a while but she usually says she does not want to use it.
She does the whole "I don't like big cocks" but her reaction to the cock sleeve says otherwise...as well as her vagina swallowing the whole thing.
Sometimes, she will just give me a handjob instead of fucking. The handjobs are great and it gives me the opportunity to imagine her being fucked from behind while jerking me off. I've asked her why she would rather jerk me off than fuck and she said she just likes to jerk me off sometimes instead of fucking.
When we have date night, which isn't very often at all, we usually go to an adult toy store and see what kind of things they have. Usually we see what they have and then order online where it's less expensive.
I brought up the subject of MFM threesome but did not put the MFM part in the initial statement. She was a lot more relieved that I wanted to have a threesome with her and another guy than with her and another female. But she declined that offer as well.
I periodically bring up the subject of hotwife but she always declines the offer. Even though I bring the subject up once in awhile, I am not pushy about it and I do not forse her to do anything she does not want to do.
I've told her I don't want to be with another woman because I'm sure she was thinking that. I told her it's not a "test" or anything like that.
Any advice for easing her mind with the subject?
~Salt
A little background.
My wife and I have been married for almost 9 years. I am Caucasian, mid 40s and she is Black African, mid 30s. I brought the subject of hotwifing and MFM threesomes up to her since about a month or two after we started dating. She thought both ideas were extremely weird but she was open to talk about it in the sense that she would let me get it out in the open what I had to say but then reject the idea of both. She has always maintained that she would not do it but then she will say or do things that cause me to believe she just might.
She will make comments about other men and how they look. Talk about their physique and how good of shape they are in. One time we were walking through Central Park, she noticed a guy in sweatpants and made a comment about how big his dick was. She must have seen the bulge. I asked her if she wanted me to ask the guy to come to our house but she said no.
She will make the comment about a woman who is fucking a black man, that she (the woman) wants him because of his big dick. She has at times said how black men have bigger dicks than white men. One time we were watching porn and she made a comment about how small the guy's dick was. I told her the guy's dick is about my size and she tried to convince me that mine was bigger but the guy's dick was literally about my size.
Several years ago, she went out with two female friends and one of the female friends ex-boyfriend. One of the female friends made a video of her dancing with another guy...I asked her to. It doesn't show in the video but she said to our friends "I think I found my next husband" referring to the man she was dancing with. The video shows her grinding her ass on the man's cock and it is a huuuuuuuuuge turn on for me. The man also has his hands all over her hips and it looks like they slip to her ass. This was end of 2019. When I jerk off, I use that video as motivation. My wife knows that I jerk off while watching the video and says that she finds it weird that I would use that video when I jerk off.
I bought a 10 inch cock sleeve and her reaction when I fuck her with it is way more intense than when I'm fucking her with my own dick. Again though, a complete turn on. After she cums, it doesn't take me but a hot second to bust a nut. I am usually the one initiating the use of it but she has initiated it a few times. I can't remember when the last time was that we used it but we don't use it that often. I bring it up once in a while but she usually says she does not want to use it.
She does the whole "I don't like big cocks" but her reaction to the cock sleeve says otherwise...as well as her vagina swallowing the whole thing.
Sometimes, she will just give me a handjob instead of fucking. The handjobs are great and it gives me the opportunity to imagine her being fucked from behind while jerking me off. I've asked her why she would rather jerk me off than fuck and she said she just likes to jerk me off sometimes instead of fucking.
When we have date night, which isn't very often at all, we usually go to an adult toy store and see what kind of things they have. Usually we see what they have and then order online where it's less expensive.
I brought up the subject of MFM threesome but did not put the MFM part in the initial statement. She was a lot more relieved that I wanted to have a threesome with her and another guy than with her and another female. But she declined that offer as well.
I periodically bring up the subject of hotwife but she always declines the offer. Even though I bring the subject up once in awhile, I am not pushy about it and I do not forse her to do anything she does not want to do.
I've told her I don't want to be with another woman because I'm sure she was thinking that. I told her it's not a "test" or anything like that.
Any advice for easing her mind with the subject?
~Salt
