My wife and I had one experience that was completely different than what we expected. It was late 1980s (yes, I'm an old MFer). Before the early 2000s, there was no talk about “bulls, cuckolds, BBCs, FLMs,” and all that recently invented stuff that's designed to sell porn, although “hotwives” were relevant then. We loved the idea of my wife being a "Hotwife." “Swinging” was what was happening, though. We connected via ads in print publications, swinger bars/clubs, etc. and word of mouth. Networking. Until we got to know some others who enjoyed our particular style of sharing, it took ages to establish contact, set up the first meeting and so on.
I'm leaving out all the talk about how my wife and I decided we wanted to "Swing" with other men and couples.
We'd been advertising in a swinger's publication seeking couples and/or males for my wife while I "watched or joined in" was the way we worded it. We would have been happy doing most anything two couples can do together, as well as what two males and a female can do. My wife had this little fantasy that I relished acting on: she wanted to watch me fuck a sexy woman. I thought it would be easy.... we'd had sex a couple of times with another local couple ("same room swinging," we called it then) and thought we were ready for the big time. It was what was going down and we liked it! This is way too long for the main forum, so I’ve moved it to this fantasy forum.
We had a picture of us naked in the ad (faces a bit obscured) and we got plenty of the usual dick pics and so on but one local couple responded. They were dating, and the woman was late 40s, and he was early 20s. It was obviously a situation where an older woman had a younger guy on the string and was enjoying life! They sent us their pics (that's how we did it in those times - everything took weeks, it seemed) and soon enough we were talking on the phone.
They wanted to know if we'd consider a scenario where I fucked the woman (Fran was her name) while he watched and jacked. We thought it would be fun, so we agreed to meet for drinks locally. That went well - he was about 23 or 24 and my wife really liked him (my wife has always liked young guys). She was late 40s, possibly mid 40s, very nice body (not voluptuous, etc., just really nice, and she was very attractive). I could tell she had money as her lingerie gave that away. My wife and I just assumed she was training him in some capacity, or was simply fucking the hell out of a young guy and loving it. We could tell he took direction from her.
So we hit it off well enough to meet and they asked us to come to their place. It was a nice single family home, her place. We had drinks and soon enough, made out for a little while as we all got hornier, etc., and she guided all of us to one of the bedrooms. I'd never been with a woman that age before and it was all very exotic to me, totally different scent, touch, mannerisms, - all the good stuff and I was ready quickly as she had my cock out of my trousers and erect there on the couch. He noticed (as did my wife), and, that's when things turned a little strange, but it was also amusing, to say the least. They (or she) had arranged the bedroom such that where was one single sized bed in the middle of the room and a couch and a chair facing it. His older girlfriend being fucked was to be a spectacle. I took great delight undressing her, then undressing myself as she climbed up on the bed and lay on her back, beautiful bush on display, and her arms outstretched to welcome me to mount her and begin the fun. By this time my wife is naked, sitting next to him, and giving him a hand job. But I lost my erection! My wife still laughs about this today, - she says it was the first time she'd ever seen me struggle to stay hard. I guess it was just the "pressure" of the scene, but my wife had to suck my cock to get me up again, and by moving quickly I was able to get back on top of the other woman and quickly get into her. Being in her was all I needed to return to full erection.
From that point on, things went well - I had no more trouble as my brain refocused on the sexy woman beneath me and how good she felt - I was wondering how many other guys had had her this way, but her body was so different from my wife's body and it was so sexy as I realized I was in fact going to be able to pull it off. She asked me to change positions to doggy, and from then on I put on a decent show, and we finished missionary. I thought for sure that both of them would want me to go down on her, but that wasn't the case at all. He'd erupted in my wife's hand long before she came with me (or faked cumming with me) and as I rose up off his girlfriend he stood and started getting dressed while my wife just sat there wondering if she should quickly dress. So we weren't sure what to do, but we weren't asked to stay and have another cocktail so we made some awkward small talk about getting together again, and we went home. Our favorite part of all off this? When we got home, we were both horny as hell and without saying much, we undressed, I pushed my wife back on the bed and went down on her for a long time. I couldn't get enough of her that way although I was starting to get hard again. I gave my wife the most thorough loving, cleaning, and oral treatment a man can give a woman, and made sure she had as many orgasms as she could handle, then we had sex for me to finish.
Viagra was not yet available when my wife and I met that couple. Had it been, I think I would have been smart enough to realize the different dynamic in play, and taken the little blue pill, just in case.
I'm leaving out all the talk about how my wife and I decided we wanted to "Swing" with other men and couples.
We'd been advertising in a swinger's publication seeking couples and/or males for my wife while I "watched or joined in" was the way we worded it. We would have been happy doing most anything two couples can do together, as well as what two males and a female can do. My wife had this little fantasy that I relished acting on: she wanted to watch me fuck a sexy woman. I thought it would be easy.... we'd had sex a couple of times with another local couple ("same room swinging," we called it then) and thought we were ready for the big time. It was what was going down and we liked it! This is way too long for the main forum, so I’ve moved it to this fantasy forum.
We had a picture of us naked in the ad (faces a bit obscured) and we got plenty of the usual dick pics and so on but one local couple responded. They were dating, and the woman was late 40s, and he was early 20s. It was obviously a situation where an older woman had a younger guy on the string and was enjoying life! They sent us their pics (that's how we did it in those times - everything took weeks, it seemed) and soon enough we were talking on the phone.
They wanted to know if we'd consider a scenario where I fucked the woman (Fran was her name) while he watched and jacked. We thought it would be fun, so we agreed to meet for drinks locally. That went well - he was about 23 or 24 and my wife really liked him (my wife has always liked young guys). She was late 40s, possibly mid 40s, very nice body (not voluptuous, etc., just really nice, and she was very attractive). I could tell she had money as her lingerie gave that away. My wife and I just assumed she was training him in some capacity, or was simply fucking the hell out of a young guy and loving it. We could tell he took direction from her.
So we hit it off well enough to meet and they asked us to come to their place. It was a nice single family home, her place. We had drinks and soon enough, made out for a little while as we all got hornier, etc., and she guided all of us to one of the bedrooms. I'd never been with a woman that age before and it was all very exotic to me, totally different scent, touch, mannerisms, - all the good stuff and I was ready quickly as she had my cock out of my trousers and erect there on the couch. He noticed (as did my wife), and, that's when things turned a little strange, but it was also amusing, to say the least. They (or she) had arranged the bedroom such that where was one single sized bed in the middle of the room and a couch and a chair facing it. His older girlfriend being fucked was to be a spectacle. I took great delight undressing her, then undressing myself as she climbed up on the bed and lay on her back, beautiful bush on display, and her arms outstretched to welcome me to mount her and begin the fun. By this time my wife is naked, sitting next to him, and giving him a hand job. But I lost my erection! My wife still laughs about this today, - she says it was the first time she'd ever seen me struggle to stay hard. I guess it was just the "pressure" of the scene, but my wife had to suck my cock to get me up again, and by moving quickly I was able to get back on top of the other woman and quickly get into her. Being in her was all I needed to return to full erection.
From that point on, things went well - I had no more trouble as my brain refocused on the sexy woman beneath me and how good she felt - I was wondering how many other guys had had her this way, but her body was so different from my wife's body and it was so sexy as I realized I was in fact going to be able to pull it off. She asked me to change positions to doggy, and from then on I put on a decent show, and we finished missionary. I thought for sure that both of them would want me to go down on her, but that wasn't the case at all. He'd erupted in my wife's hand long before she came with me (or faked cumming with me) and as I rose up off his girlfriend he stood and started getting dressed while my wife just sat there wondering if she should quickly dress. So we weren't sure what to do, but we weren't asked to stay and have another cocktail so we made some awkward small talk about getting together again, and we went home. Our favorite part of all off this? When we got home, we were both horny as hell and without saying much, we undressed, I pushed my wife back on the bed and went down on her for a long time. I couldn't get enough of her that way although I was starting to get hard again. I gave my wife the most thorough loving, cleaning, and oral treatment a man can give a woman, and made sure she had as many orgasms as she could handle, then we had sex for me to finish.
Viagra was not yet available when my wife and I met that couple. Had it been, I think I would have been smart enough to realize the different dynamic in play, and taken the little blue pill, just in case.