Can you tell me more for your experiences? What worked well and what would you avoid next time?
Wife and I had already enjoyed a few threesomes with an insurance salesman who came to our home to write up a policy. Up until a few years ago, that's how homeowner's policies were often written. The salesman became our first threesome partner. My wife had enjoyed a couple of one offs, and knew how that excited me. To briefly set the stage, we were in our early 30s and we'd both been married before. We both knew we wanted more sex than we would experience in a traditional marriage and we openly and frankly talked about it all before we married. We were free to have sex with other people as long as we didn't let it impact the foundation of our marriage. I didn't want other women all that often though. Our needs and wants are a whole 'nother topic though.
We didn't get all that deep into the "cuckold" fantasy and talk about all that stuff, - we both knew what we enjoyed and my wife clearly understood I'd go along with anything she wanted to do. That I wanted her to say who she would have sex with, when and how often. You (hubands) may think you want it, but you don't need humiliation, cages, huge BBCs and all that to enjoy it when your wife has sex with other men in Las Vegas (or anywhere else for that matter). As much of a clutz as I am, I clearly understood my wife would have sex with other men if she could, and I loved it. But I also understood I might not always be with her for the fun. She understood she had the control. That's roles we gradulated into. I thought I was the benefactor but she liked it too!
We live within easy driving distance of Las Vegas, and visited at least once a year (we still go often). It was understood and desired that we find new and exciting sex partners for her and she looked forward to that as much as the gambling, expensive dinners and shows. My wife didn't get laid every time we went there, sometimes you just don't score. But we clearly understood that every guy there wants to get laid and that gives a woman the opportunity to be "picky." As the husband, that's what I want.
Every ethnicity is available there for anyone who wants to fuck. Every look and every build. Every fantasy can be enacted. You don't have to be a genius to figure out that the convention center is where the action is. That, and the bars outside "The Strip," where the workers go after their shifts. Because Vegas is 24/7, there's 3 distinct shifts of locals that surge into the bars after their shifts end. Plenty of horny guys for a horny wife to choose from and women for those husbands and wives who want to enjoy another woman.
That said, the blackjack tables and bars in the casino worked best for us. Blackjack affords the opportunity for some conversation to learn a bit about the prospective candidate and touch them a little bit to demonstrate interest and availability. A woman can dress to attract attention - she can show a little more, and it's the norm. The bars in the casinos don't need any explanation except that in Vegas some guys assume a woman open to conversation and drinks at the bar is a prostitute. Big mistake. In my line of work, I was busy at the convention center all day, or on the golf course with other sales/business types, and my wife was in the casino. She had our room to use all day long, or could go to a guy's room. We quickly learned to stay at hotels adjacent to the convention center where all of the guys coming in from out of town to work their conventions stayed.
It goes without saying that you need to let your wife know how excited you'd be for her if she finds an attractive, personable lover and gets laid. Otherwise you are leaving it up to some guy to seduce her. But the rules are different in Vegas. The old saying "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" is the reality. My wife had sex with a couple of guys there that she wanted to get together with in the future, and did with one of them. Get their contact information and encourage your wife to give them hers. They will almost always want to fuck her again, even after they leave and go home.
Book the room next to the room you and your wife are staying in. Gladly pay for it. This isn't the time to cheap out. Best scenario - rooms with an adjoining door. Those rooms are better for hubby to listen to the fun (sound and voices transfer much better through the doors than through a wall), and hear his wife enjoying an orgasm with another man. Sexy talking with him. And... rooms with adjoining doors afford hubby the opportunity to enjoy seconds with his wife the minute her lover leaves. isn't that what you want? You don't even have to get dressed to go out into the hall - you will be immediately greeted with a smiling wife and the aroma of sex and she will love seeing your erection as you approach the bed. It doesn't get any better. No words need to be spoken. Just make sure you get two keys when you check in so that she can have guys meet her in your room without you needing to be there. Some guys can't use their own rooms to fuck as they have their wives with them. A wife can text her hubby to keep him abreast of what is happening. Nobody there (except your coworkers) knows you or your wife so just about everything goes. Sit at the bar while your wife gambles - you can watch all of the fun right up to the moment she takes her new lover upstairs to your room.
I would suggest you not fuck around with videos and images - it distracts from what is happening. As her husband, you want your wife to have the highest level experience possible so that she'll let loose and want to do it again.
To avoid:
*cheap, or lower end casinos and buffets, motels and older casinos.
*rooms that don't have an ajoining door to the next room.
