Playdoe

Hi I'm from Australia, married, 42 & have been thinking about taking on a lover other than my husband, maybe fantasising it more lol. My husband has an idea of how I feel but exploring my ideas here
Good for you on exploring your ideas. My wife was a HW for 14 years and, as her husband, I loved her more every time she was meeting with a new BF or I got home to find her in bed with her current boyfriend. We were always very close but when she started to have sex with other men we became closer then ever before. I am in Perth WA.
 
For us, time management was critical. Home time and fun time was always hard to manage, but the end result was well worth it. Communication is the key though, make sure you communicate with everyone involved, take your time and enjoy the thrills. I loved it when she had a second boyfriend, and when we all got to play together it was amazing.