The topic is on the notion of ‘revenge sex’ - the situation in which one partner has sex with someone outside the primary relationship to get even, settle a score, or for some similar motivation.
Before evolving to our present lifestyle, Krista was a serial cheater, even from the time we started dating. She was never monogamous or faithful to her marriage vows. Perversely, Krista demanded absolute monogamy from me. She was (and still is, though better controlled) insanely jealous whenever it came to me and other women.
The first time Krista was triggered into an act of revenge sex was over a fight we were having. I was ride sharing to evening university classes with a female colleague, Laura. At first there was nothing going on between Laura and me - Krista didn’t care, as she was convinced that we were fooling around. Krista demanded that I cut off contact with Laura, even to the point of pressuring me to drop out of the graduate program.
I refused, not only to drop out of the program, but I continued to ride-share with Laura. One night while I was in class, Krista decided to drown her sorrows with tequila and weed, planning to tell me off, how it was gonna be when I got home from class.
Krista ran out of weed before running out of tequila. She called up our “weed dude” and he was happy to oblige her supply needs. Of course when he found my young, ......, stoned and angry-horny wife alone in the apartment, he was happy to service Krista’s other needs as well.
The anecdotal story I later heard about that night was Kurtis (weed dude) fucked Krista’s mouth and ass until she ...... - this from another acquaintance, Lane, a friend of Kurtis, and our back-up weed dude. I found Krista ...... on the sofa when I got home that night - empty bottle of tequila on the floor, a tiny stub of a roach, along with an open bag of weed on a tray atop the sofa table. Krista was naked except for her socks.
Had I known the signs, I’d probably have been able to tell she’d just been brutally fucked. I was young and naive, thinking that she’d pissed herself a little from the booze. I got the anecdotal confirmation of Krista’s fakery about a month later, when I confronted Kurtis and Lane about how much Krista was spending on weed; trying to get a little help to slow her down.
They both laughed hysterically - long story short, Krista had been essentially fucking them both, in return for “free” or extra weed, or a discount on it… I managed to get out of the two of them that Krista told them both I was a fucking cheating bastard, cheating on her with Laura (Krista called her my “work wife”), and she needed to show me that two can play at that game.
Ironically, perhaps not, Krista’s concerns about Laura were accurate. We engaged in a destructive, complicated affair - which came to an embarrassing and near catastrophic end. In parallel, Krista tired of Kurtis and Lane, turning her attention to the boss at her new job.
After that first event, I can count at least another half dozen similar scenarios. Krista would react to a perceived injury, a “dalliance” on my part, her anger and rage horny boil-over would hit, and she’d be out for revenge sex.
These events ranged from one-and-done fucks to repeat encounters over weeks, or months. I’m wondering about those who’ve had similar experiences, a wife, fiancé, or girlfriend who sought out revenge sex to get back at her primary partner…
Before evolving to our present lifestyle, Krista was a serial cheater, even from the time we started dating. She was never monogamous or faithful to her marriage vows. Perversely, Krista demanded absolute monogamy from me. She was (and still is, though better controlled) insanely jealous whenever it came to me and other women.
The first time Krista was triggered into an act of revenge sex was over a fight we were having. I was ride sharing to evening university classes with a female colleague, Laura. At first there was nothing going on between Laura and me - Krista didn’t care, as she was convinced that we were fooling around. Krista demanded that I cut off contact with Laura, even to the point of pressuring me to drop out of the graduate program.
I refused, not only to drop out of the program, but I continued to ride-share with Laura. One night while I was in class, Krista decided to drown her sorrows with tequila and weed, planning to tell me off, how it was gonna be when I got home from class.
Krista ran out of weed before running out of tequila. She called up our “weed dude” and he was happy to oblige her supply needs. Of course when he found my young, ......, stoned and angry-horny wife alone in the apartment, he was happy to service Krista’s other needs as well.
The anecdotal story I later heard about that night was Kurtis (weed dude) fucked Krista’s mouth and ass until she ...... - this from another acquaintance, Lane, a friend of Kurtis, and our back-up weed dude. I found Krista ...... on the sofa when I got home that night - empty bottle of tequila on the floor, a tiny stub of a roach, along with an open bag of weed on a tray atop the sofa table. Krista was naked except for her socks.
Had I known the signs, I’d probably have been able to tell she’d just been brutally fucked. I was young and naive, thinking that she’d pissed herself a little from the booze. I got the anecdotal confirmation of Krista’s fakery about a month later, when I confronted Kurtis and Lane about how much Krista was spending on weed; trying to get a little help to slow her down.
They both laughed hysterically - long story short, Krista had been essentially fucking them both, in return for “free” or extra weed, or a discount on it… I managed to get out of the two of them that Krista told them both I was a fucking cheating bastard, cheating on her with Laura (Krista called her my “work wife”), and she needed to show me that two can play at that game.
Ironically, perhaps not, Krista’s concerns about Laura were accurate. We engaged in a destructive, complicated affair - which came to an embarrassing and near catastrophic end. In parallel, Krista tired of Kurtis and Lane, turning her attention to the boss at her new job.
After that first event, I can count at least another half dozen similar scenarios. Krista would react to a perceived injury, a “dalliance” on my part, her anger and rage horny boil-over would hit, and she’d be out for revenge sex.
These events ranged from one-and-done fucks to repeat encounters over weeks, or months. I’m wondering about those who’ve had similar experiences, a wife, fiancé, or girlfriend who sought out revenge sex to get back at her primary partner…
