If your wife is religious,it's about crafting a way to take her through steps without her questioning, all religions have a rituals within them that will bordoer and with each step, you make her do things she won't the eventual control, it can work with other things than religion, but you have to find her deep rooted beliefs as a kid that she learned, because people never question what they in adult life, what they were brainwashed as a kid
