role reversal: how my ex-gf convinced me

[wasper]

Have a story on this topic, there may be a lesson in here somewhere on this topic.
I'm happily married to an Asian wife that doesn't play. And that's OK.

But before her, I had a Filipina gf for 3 years. She was 5', maybe 100 lbs. Bossy. Dominant. Batshit crazy. Smoking hot sexually, and adventurous.
We did all kinds of wild stuff - sex in public, sex in front of her female roommate, etc. But eventually she started to let her bossiness and dominance take over our relationship. I found it hot, and let it happen.
Whenever I was at her place, we fucked. And she would always demand she blow me before I left. Sometimes it was less than an hour after we fucked, she didn't care - she was going to get another nut out of me. She always swallowed.
Then, after a while she started holding my cum in her mouth, and kissing me, and passing it to me. At first, I thought it was gross, but over time I accepted it. Her convincing me to submit to her had begun.
Next, while we were fucking, she would ask me to go deeper and deeper. For a 5' tall petite Filipina, I was afraid I was going to hurt her. But she would say "Cmon, fuck me! - Fuck me hard!" I would bang her really hard with my 5+" but usually come pretty quick as just hearing her say these things made me super-excited. She would tease me after saying "I wish you could go deeper... and harder ... and last longer."
We would watch porn together before & after sex and she would comment about the guys. "Oh that guy has a nice dick. I wouldn't mind one that big". She was setting the table for the next step.
Sure enough, one day she suggests that "a friend" join us for some fun. A guy she knew from her job. I was curious, but asked her what exactly she meant. She said, she had heard from her friends at work that the guy was known to have a big cock, and she was curious, but wanted me to be there. I won't lie, the idea of her playing with a big cock enticed me - but at the same time I was definitely threatened. I asked her if she was setting this up to have sex with him. "No!" she said. "But maybe I could jerk him off? Maybe blow him? But no sex. And honey, I want you there!"
I agreed, but again, was wondering what the hell was going on.
Anyway, we hit a bar with this "friend". He was a nice guy. Short, maybe 5'2" but built. Not long after, we end up at her place and she is pretty drunk, and super bossy. Clothes start coming off and the friend is hung really well, would estimate about 8.5" or so. Looked even bigger on his short frame. My gf immediately goes down on him, ignoring me and gives him a world class BJ. I'm watching with a hard-on - she's totally fixated on him. He cums in her mouth and - she jumps on me, and passes me his cum via a deep wet kiss. I was shocked, and choked on it. Even the friend was surprised. That night my gf blew and then fucked her friend over and over, while I watched, and in between rounds she would suck me off. Any cum in her mouth was passed to me. Her pussy was finally gratified, but not cum in.
Our relationship did not last long after this, but the memory is indelible and being cucked by her remains a defining moment in my life.

 

[Sloz77]

wow what a story. It remember me some days with my wife. But i can't imagine she kiss me with strangers cum 😳. In other hand i understand pretty good your feeling, between shocking and excitement, about the lifestyle of your wife. Mine love extreme so far, motivated by curiosity and probably a psychological problem of lack of limits.
Sometimes it's difficult to me to accept she could have hard or ugly practice, but love drive me through. I fear she could leave me if i don't agree with her fantasies and expérience. So i accept all her deviations, until i'm not force to do the same. I just assist her and let her alone when it's too much for me.
When i met her at the begining, she was hot, no doubt, but one day i surprises her cheating me at home with her ex, when i was supposes to be out for the evening. I was really angry, but i was already threatened by loosing her. We talked a lot about the situation and i learnt she want more than me, even if she's in love with me more than ever. Then i offered her to experience swingers club. It was pretty cool and exciting...and today she has no limits. She tested a lot of hard practices, with or without me. I love her more and more, take care of her, and help her to realise her fantasies, also if i don't always stand it. I just need her. Apart from sex, she's so lovely, helpful and funny. It's a bit difficult with her friends that know her lifestyle and put me down sometimes.

 

[Blondegrandpa]

wow what a story. It remember me some days with my wife. But i can't imagine she kiss me with strangers cum 😳. In other hand i understand pretty good your feeling, between shocking and excitement, about the lifestyle of your wife. Mine love extreme so far, motivated by curiosity and probably a psychological problem of lack of limits.
Sometimes it's difficult to me to accept she could have hard or ugly practice, but love drive me through. I fear she could leave me if i don't agree with her fantasies and expérience. So i accept all her deviations, until i'm not force to do the same. I just assist her and let her alone when it's too much for me.
When i met her at the begining, she was hot, no doubt, but one day i surprises her cheating me at home with her ex, when i was supposes to be out for the evening. I was really angry, but i was already threatened by loosing her. We talked a lot about the situation and i learnt she want more than me, even if she's in love with me more than ever. Then i offered her to experience swingers club. It was pretty cool and exciting...and today she has no limits. She tested a lot of hard practices, with or without me. I love her more and more, take care of her, and help her to realise her fantasies, also if i don't always stand it. I just need her. Apart from sex, she's so lovely, helpful and funny. It's a bit difficult with her friends that know her lifestyle and put me down sometimes.

Strong man