At first, you can try alternative methods rather than thinking of direct seduction. My suggestion is to have her contact a man. It's nothing extravagant, but make sure he's someone with whom he can have little flirtations. This may be a friend you can invite to your home often. He may be the owner/employee of a restaurant he frequents. It could be a neighbor. a holiday companion. a masseur? It all depends on your relationship, but make a man feel close
to you all the time. Over time, the idea of ...... with that man will instinctively come to your mind (there is no need to ...... with him) and maybe this will open a new door for you.