Slowly increasing dildo size

[Dcucked]

My wife and I have yet to play with a bull. She says it's risky and is concerned what if she develops feelings for the bull. Anyway, we have been playing with dildos recently to see how she does with bigger cocks. I'm average sized, 5'5". The first dildo we tried was 7.5"x 1.7" wide. It wasn't comfortable and she said it hurt. Today we had sex with alot of foreplay and I talked to her about a former lover she had met in bar and took home to fuck. I even called her a slut and she didn't mind it at all. I ate her pussy for a while and made her cum. Then we tried a 8.75" x 2" dildo and she had no problem with the width. I could could only insert maybe 7" of the dildo because she said it hurt. She also said it felt like it was hitting something in the front of her vagina. It didn't hurt but it didn't feel good. She was only was able to cum from clitoral stimulation. She suggested trying a short but fat dildo. So I ordered a 6"x2.2" dildo.

My question is, maybe she just has a short vagina? I really want her to experience a G spot or A spot orgasm. If we decide to find a bull are there guys out there who have short but girthy cocks? Alot of the posts I see on sites like this show guys with massive schlongs. Not every woman want a 9" cock.
Thoughts??

 

[Shadowstalker]

My wife and I have yet to play with a bull. She says it's risky and is concerned what if she develops feelings for the bull. Anyway, we have been playing with dildos recently to see how she does with bigger cocks. I'm average sized, 5'5". The first dildo we tried was 7.5"x 1.7" wide. It wasn't comfortable and she said it hurt. Today we had sex with alot of foreplay and I talked to her about a former lover she had met in bar and took home to fuck. I even called her a slut and she didn't mind it at all. I ate her pussy for a while and made her cum. Then we tried a 8.75" x 2" dildo and she had no problem with the width. I could could only insert maybe 7" of the dildo because she said it hurt. She also said it felt like it was hitting something in the front of her vagina. It didn't hurt but it didn't feel good. She was only was able to cum from clitoral stimulation. She suggested trying a short but fat dildo. So I ordered a 6"x2.2" dildo.

My question is, maybe she just has a short vagina? I really want her to experience a G spot or A spot orgasm. If we decide to find a bull are there guys out there who have short but girthy cocks? Alot of the posts I see on sites like this show guys with massive schlongs. Not every woman want a 9" cock.
Thoughts??

She will have a low cervix.. I have an 8.5" cock and it touches my wife's cervix in some positions she says it feels like a sharp stabbing pain and it's not comfortable at all ... You are doing the right thing looking for girth rather than length

 

[steve181818]

The more turned on she is the more she can take. Her cervix will move up and she can take more. Maybe she just wasn't comfortable enough. Anyways if it was a gspot orgasm that youre looking for then you wouldnt be going deep anyways.

 

[majorem]

Most women can't accommodate much more than 6" - less when not fully aroused, a bit more when aroused as the vagina elongates. You can see this in porn, where a woman is fucking a guy with a 10" cock or a huge dildo and only like 6-8" actually fits inside. Like men, women vary in size, so you do have some who can take a pretty long dick but that isn't the norm. I think a lot of women enjoy big cocks are more into the visual and thrill of a huge cock more than the actual length unless they're one of the few with a really deep pussy.

My cock is only 7-8" and if I thrust too hard in some positions it hurts my wife, who I would say has a deeper than avg pussy. I've had past girlfriends where I could never really put my whole cock in.

The other thing is, the g-spot is only like 2-3" inside the vagina. Most of the nerves are around the front. Another reason your wife may not like dildos as much is that, during sex, the man's pelvis is often pressing into the outside of the pussy / clit, providing additional stimulation that doesn't happen with a dildo. She might enjoy it more if you use the dildo while eating her out. I feel like this is real bonus for women of using a dildo over your cock - the possibility of being filled while also getting oral.

On the other hand, pussies can handle a lot of girth, after all, baby-heads have to pass through there. When you're using a bigger dildo though, I think you need to go kind of slow and use lube otherwise they can get sore quickly. My wife has one that is 9" circumference and you can tell she really enjoys getting it in and feeling stretched by it but she hasn't cum on it and usually just wants the real dick after a few minutes of that.