I have found several cuckold porn videos (all amateur) with the wife who has almost an exact body of mine. Do you think that showing her these and telling her these are what gets me primarily aroused because they look like her will maybe get her to see a bit more just how much I want her to enjoy this?
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Probably not but still worth a try. She might just tell you well watch that and pretend it’s her 😕
Before we started I found pics on the internet of a woman that looked like my wife. She had fun making up stories of how she was picked up by 2 men that fucked her. The fantasies were fun,it started this new lifestyle.
I think you are way better off to just be completely honest with her. Tell her what u want, and why. Tell her what u want for her and why u think she needs it. Explain how u would feel about it and why. Women like to have an explanation and want to see that it's not just for u, the primary focus should always be on her and it's best to do that from the start.
Why is it that men have such little clue?
So you want to show your wife porn you have been watching featuring some random woman? How do you think that is going to go down? You have just admitted to her that you are watching porn without her, that raises all sorts of questions for an average married woman, such as…
Is he watching porn because I’m not enough for him?
What other disgusting things has he seen that he expects from me?
Does he hope that convincing me to sleep with someone else so he hopes he can do the same?
Porn is so degrading, do I want to be with someone that has a porn habit?
But whatever she thinks it is unlikely to be positive. It would be far better to talk to her like the adult she is about how you would like to ask her about trying new things with the sexual side of your relationship. You have to approach it carefully and build up to it, just like when you first met her. I take it you didn’t walk up to her in the street and say, hey you look hot, would you like to come with me and we can fuck?
Of course you didn’t, you took baby steps, getting to know each other a bit and despite at least one of you wishing you could jump straight to getting naked, some time was spent getting there. Things are no different now, to get to where you want to be, you have to work your way there, that means taking the time to carefully think about what you are going to say and move faster when things are going well, slow down or even stop if she rejects your suggestions.
If you can’t even have an open discussion about what celebrities you both find attractive and could imagine having sex with, without the feelings of distrust and jealousy raising their ugly head then you are not ready to talk about actually having sex with real people.
So you want to show your wife porn you have been watching featuring some random woman? How do you think that is going to go down? You have just admitted to her that you are watching porn without her, that raises all sorts of questions for an average married woman, such as…
Is he watching porn because I’m not enough for him?
What other disgusting things has he seen that he expects from me?
Does he hope that convincing me to sleep with someone else so he hopes he can do the same?
Porn is so degrading, do I want to be with someone that has a porn habit?
But whatever she thinks it is unlikely to be positive. It would be far better to talk to her like the adult she is about how you would like to ask her about trying new things with the sexual side of your relationship. You have to approach it carefully and build up to it, just like when you first met her. I take it you didn’t walk up to her in the street and say, hey you look hot, would you like to come with me and we can fuck?
Of course you didn’t, you took baby steps, getting to know each other a bit and despite at least one of you wishing you could jump straight to getting naked, some time was spent getting there. Things are no different now, to get to where you want to be, you have to work your way there, that means taking the time to carefully think about what you are going to say and move faster when things are going well, slow down or even stop if she rejects your suggestions.
If you can’t even have an open discussion about what celebrities you both find attractive and could imagine having sex with, without the feelings of distrust and jealousy raising their ugly head then you are not ready to talk about actually having sex with real people.
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