"Seconds." ...... What you want (assuming you are the husband or male BF - 99% of the folks in here are male....) is one of the sexiest experiences a husband and wife can have. And assuming you are male hopefully you'll be able to share your needs with your wife - does she like to talk about sex with you? Enjoying "seconds" with her isn't something that's easy to broach and if the two of you haven't yet delved deep into the list of fantasy and bucket list items, it can't just be thrown into the conversation.
What I found when my wife told me she needed to have sex with other men (as she wasn't having orgasms with me inside her)...... - was that once she found the right guy and had internalized that I wanted her to have sex with him as much as she did, - was that she loved for me to see that she was experiencing so much pleasure with him (in our bed), ....and I didn't have to ask her to show my her pussy afterwards. She knew the effect it would have on me. I would immediately get on top of her, penetrate her slick cummy vagina, and ejaculate before going down on her.
Over the early years of our marriage (and lots of sexy discussion about adding men in her/our bed, which guy would to first, and why, etc.) she shared with me that on that first night in our bed when another man took her while I watched, - as he finished rolled off her, her legs instictively opened for me to see and she was looking into my eyes knowing how arousing that was to me. She made no conscious effort to open her legs so I could see, - it just happened - her legs remained open as he pulled out of her and rolled off to her side. It's one of those sexy moments that we all live for. And kudos to her, she was not happy that he pulled out immediately after finishing in her, but she knew what was happening with me......
My eyes were fixed on her glistening labia and the white sperm ring around the opening of her vagina as I moved on top of her. It was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen and my cock just went right in her, - I was only lightly guiding it, mainly because I wanted to see and feel his sperm on my hands and penis as I entered her. It's overwhelming - what she and I both learned was that when I took seconds, I (selfishly) wasn't thinking about making it last longer - the orgasm was overwhelming me before I could think about it much. I didn't know where he'd gone or what he was doing - I completely lost track of the fact that another man was in our bedroom. As a husband, I found it impossible to control my orgasm and last longer in this situation - a man's cock and balls are in complete control of his brain and his body in those moments. I am certain of that. Afterwards, you just lay there and wonder what the fuck just happened and your wife is laying there smirking at you. She's in control now. Just like you wanted. It's a lot to think about afterwards. To use a shopworn phrase: we always fucked like rabbits in the days after an mfm. Sex was heightened to a new level, as was desire.
What was he doing? Answer: he'd walked naked into the kitchen and made himself a drink. He was giving us some "together" time while he recovered.
What I found when my wife told me she needed to have sex with other men (as she wasn't having orgasms with me inside her)...... - was that once she found the right guy and had internalized that I wanted her to have sex with him as much as she did, - was that she loved for me to see that she was experiencing so much pleasure with him (in our bed), ....and I didn't have to ask her to show my her pussy afterwards. She knew the effect it would have on me. I would immediately get on top of her, penetrate her slick cummy vagina, and ejaculate before going down on her.
Over the early years of our marriage (and lots of sexy discussion about adding men in her/our bed, which guy would to first, and why, etc.) she shared with me that on that first night in our bed when another man took her while I watched, - as he finished rolled off her, her legs instictively opened for me to see and she was looking into my eyes knowing how arousing that was to me. She made no conscious effort to open her legs so I could see, - it just happened - her legs remained open as he pulled out of her and rolled off to her side. It's one of those sexy moments that we all live for. And kudos to her, she was not happy that he pulled out immediately after finishing in her, but she knew what was happening with me......
My eyes were fixed on her glistening labia and the white sperm ring around the opening of her vagina as I moved on top of her. It was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen and my cock just went right in her, - I was only lightly guiding it, mainly because I wanted to see and feel his sperm on my hands and penis as I entered her. It's overwhelming - what she and I both learned was that when I took seconds, I (selfishly) wasn't thinking about making it last longer - the orgasm was overwhelming me before I could think about it much. I didn't know where he'd gone or what he was doing - I completely lost track of the fact that another man was in our bedroom. As a husband, I found it impossible to control my orgasm and last longer in this situation - a man's cock and balls are in complete control of his brain and his body in those moments. I am certain of that. Afterwards, you just lay there and wonder what the fuck just happened and your wife is laying there smirking at you. She's in control now. Just like you wanted. It's a lot to think about afterwards. To use a shopworn phrase: we always fucked like rabbits in the days after an mfm. Sex was heightened to a new level, as was desire.
What was he doing? Answer: he'd walked naked into the kitchen and made himself a drink. He was giving us some "together" time while he recovered.
