The other way around: how to convince her not to do it

Imbaplayer

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I don't know where else to ask and I am guessing this seems kind of out the norm here but I need help or advice for preventing to get cucked.
My wife sometimes models and does photoshoots (nothing wild and only as a hobby and for private use like only for me to see etc) which isn't the problem but she has a female friend who's kind of a bitch and I hate her and now shes trying to convince my wife into making an ... which would be a horror to me but that's not all she also tells her to get tinder to get guys to make content with and not doing it with me either. When I heard that I tried to stay calm because my wife hates jealousy even though I'm a really jealous guy but the worst part was hearing that my wife now is seriously considering it if more people tell her that it's a good idea.

Now my dilemma is and what I need advice for.. How do I tell her that it's a shit idea and prevent any of this from happening without coming over as a jealous overprotective asshole?
Does anyone else here has experience with bad influence from others on your wife etc? How did you deal with it and what can I do or say to her?

Any advice is welcomed.
 

WiseOld

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Fear. Women do not do many of the crazy things that men do because of fear. Implant fearful thoughts in her. Work to drive a wedge between her and her friend. Start by praising her friend, but then leak out a few misgivings about, such as why she would encourage your wife to do such dangerous things, such a using Tinder, as there are so many creepy guys posing as hunks (catfishing, in other words; for example, half the stories here and many of the photos are fake). Also mention how some guys seek women to secretly video for porn sites. In other words physical fear and social fear are equally lethal. Do your research: find news stories about exploited and publicly shamed women. Look up the STD rates in your city. Look at some police reports. If you have kids or might have kids, bring up how devastating it would be to them years from now when a potentially wild sexual past resurfaces in public.
 

Imbaplayer

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Fear. Women do not do many of the crazy things that men do because of fear. Implant fearful thoughts in her. Work to drive a wedge between her and her friend. Start by praising her friend, but then leak out a few misgivings about, such as why she would encourage your wife to do such dangerous things, such a using Tinder, as there are so many creepy guys posing as hunks (catfishing, in other words; for example, half the stories here and many of the photos are fake). Also mention how some guys seek women to secretly video for porn sites. In other words physical fear and social fear are equally lethal. Do your research: find news stories about exploited and publicly shamed women. Look up the STD rates in your city. Look at some police reports. If you have kids or might have kids, bring up how devastating it would be to them years from now when a potentially wild sexual past resurfaces in public.
Those are really good ideas so I have to play kind of the slow game and tell her things like that to implant the idea that it's bad and that her friend is bad influence
 
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Your wife is shit testing you. It's testing you to see if you're man enough.

Threatening to do these things and even doing them is a test. Women will always try to beta you. And if you act like a loser, you will lose her. She will always step across another boundary.

My recommendation: don't bother with it. Whatever she wants to do, she will do it anyway. Better: meet old girlfriends in your city. Go on crazy trips with your best friends. Lead a nice life. Make your wife the one who is jealous. It's not easy, but in a paradoxical way it's the best for your relationship.
 
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JMNBABE

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If you truly want to discourage her, show her some of the wives who started out as "hotwives" and then got involved in making movies, doing photoshoots, and RUINED their lives........SEKA is one, Lauren Rayborn is another, and there are a host of others who got overinvolved in this lifestyle and lost their marriages, jobs, lifestyles prior, family respect, etc.

CW
 

Bear It

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I don't know where else to ask and I am guessing this seems kind of out the norm here but I need help or advice for preventing to get cucked.
My wife sometimes models and does photoshoots (nothing wild and only as a hobby and for private use like only for me to see etc) which isn't the problem but she has a female friend who's kind of a bitch and I hate her and now shes trying to convince my wife into making an ... which would be a horror to me but that's not all she also tells her to get tinder to get guys to make content with and not doing it with me either. When I heard that I tried to stay calm because my wife hates jealousy even though I'm a really jealous guy but the worst part was hearing that my wife now is seriously considering it if more people tell her that it's a good idea.

Now my dilemma is and what I need advice for.. How do I tell her that it's a shit idea and prevent any of this from happening without coming over as a jealous overprotective asshole?
Does anyone else here has experience with bad influence from others on your wife etc? How did you deal with it and what can I do or say to her?

Any advice is welcomed.
I don't know where else to ask and I am guessing this seems kind of out the norm here but I need help or advice for preventing to get cucked.
My wife sometimes models and does photoshoots (nothing wild and only as a hobby and for private use like only for me to see etc) which isn't the problem but she has a female friend who's kind of a bitch and I hate her and now shes trying to convince my wife into making an ... which would be a horror to me but that's not all she also tells her to get tinder to get guys to make content with and not doing it with me either. When I heard that I tried to stay calm because my wife hates jealousy even though I'm a really jealous guy but the worst part was hearing that my wife now is seriously considering it if more people tell her that it's a good idea.

Now my dilemma is and what I need advice for.. How do I tell her that it's a shit idea and prevent any of this from happening without coming over as a jealous overprotective asshole?
Does anyone else here has experience with bad influence from others on your wife etc? How did you deal with it and what can I do or say to her?

Any advice is welcomed.
If this is not acceptable to you then be a jealous overprotective asshole. Lay down the law. She stays or she goes. You cant control her. Just give her options. Though be prepared for the backlash. In the mean time protect yourself. Consult with a legal professional in case she does go. If she follows through without your consent let know she will be single and to start packing. If you want to be a cockhold then encourage her.
 

Bear It

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Notice that the poster joined on October 22 and has not be around since October 27?
Something seems amiss. Even money this is a troll.
 
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