the thought of her being taken away

I mean, it's not like I want my wife to actually leave me or anything. But just the idea of someone else being able to take her away from me
It's like this deep-seated desire to be overpowered and outdone...
You know what I mean? Like maybe some other guy comes along and sweeps her off her feet and takes her away from me. And all I can do is watch as they make love to each other...
can you guys relate?
 
There is definitely a titillation aspect to this. Twice during our marriage, my wife got involved enough with a Lover (well, one was a potential Lover) that she admitted considering ending our marriage for them. While it was NOT what I wanted out of the lifestyle when we got involved initially, I both HATED and LOVED the angst and anger and fear of her not coming back this time when she was with these Lovers. I would vassilate between near tears fear and 'hard as a ROCK if I don't jerk off its going to EXPLODE' in the same evening, sometimes the same HOUR!! Amazing how theHURT can be so stimulating. CW