Think wife is having affair

So I think my wife is currently having an affair with a guy she works with. She is aware that I have a fantasy of watching her with another, and she says she is interested. But this guy at work is all done behind my back. I know she has sent him some naughty images and he has done the same. But recently I found a sex toy that he had bought for her (addressed to him).
What do you guys think?
 
So I think my wife is currently having an affair with a guy she works with. She is aware that I have a fantasy of watching her with another, and she says she is interested. But this guy at work is all done behind my back. I know she has sent him some naughty images and he has done the same. But recently I found a sex toy that he had bought for her (addressed to him).
What do you guys think?
You asked so, seems that you’re already being cucked, but not in a way that’s in any way associated with your own desire or pleasure. Why would she “perform” for you with another guy if she’s enjoying all she wants getting the D from him under her (or unfortunately, likely his) own terms. Seems like you need to have a conversation quickly and figure out if you’re going to be involved or even present in her future. Hopefully it works out for all
 
You need to tell her you know, and that she needs to be all in with letting you watch and join, or her ass is out the door with her suitcase and tooth brush tossed out right behind her. It's shitty for her to cheat when she knows good and well that you're into watching and being involved. 😡