Updates on my life as a cuck (?)

SteveP

Male
Hey all!

I'll be using this thread to maintain a sort of diary, if you will, or a record of updates on our cuckolding lifestyle. A few of you might remember that I had posted here for the first time on 8th Jan 2025, where I had introduced my wife and I on the New Introductions post. I had mentioned how I was new to this concept, but was willing to know more after my wife had raised it up a couple of times with me.

Well, I just wanted to thank the few of you who had reached out and offered assistance. I've been talking with a few of you on this, both cucks and bulls, and I wanted to thank you all so much for guiding me on this. I've learnt a lot these past months, and I've started to get more comfortable with the idea of my sharing my wife (I won't be sharing to people here haha. Relax guys! ;p). I've also started to even like this idea and find it quite hot. The tips and pointers that some of you shared, the experiences and the media has all really helped me ease into the idea. I've been much more open to the idea of being a cuckold and have started to seriously consider it. So, thanks so much!

I spoke to my wife a couple months ago, and she was quite happy when I said I was willing to try a newer lifestyle (we did have a great date and sex sesh after that haha)! Ever since, we've been on the lookout for a nice guy. My wife has become more free and even wild, I'd say. And I really really like this side of her haha. It's a whole different personality! Of course, we've laid down some ground rules. My wife started an online dating account and has been talking to other men. I know of it though, and she keeps me updated about things, even showing me the chats or chatting in front of me, sharing what they're talking about.

I'll admit, at first, I was pretty bummed out, and felt a bit weird. But now it's gotten much better, and I've even started to find it hot. A couple of weeks ago, my wife showed me a photo she had sent to a match and goddamnnn, was she looking hot. We have declined going on any dates till now, but we're seriously considering that too. My wife, and now I, are thinking of having a bull enter our relationship. I'm anxious and worried, but the thought of having another man, a better man, fuck my wife gets me horny now too haha.

We've gotten in touch with a few bulls and with some guidance from a few friends from here, we're both trying to figure out a nice and safe person to open our relationship with. Let's see what happens!
 
Hey Steve. Speaking from some experience it is much hotter and more fun if you can find a bull that really clicks with her and rocks her world.

There are some activities that you might find hot like guiding him in and cleaning her up that are much more fun if the three of you get along.
 

Attachments

  • IMG_20250112_121525.jpg
    IMG_20250112_121525.jpg
    83.3 KB · Views: 40
  • IMG_20230805_074420496.jpg
    IMG_20230805_074420496.jpg
    490.7 KB · Views: 33
  • IMG_20240224_195410517.jpg
    IMG_20240224_195410517.jpg
    577 KB · Views: 39
  • IMG_20240224_195520752.jpg
    IMG_20240224_195520752.jpg
    659.5 KB · Views: 36
  • VID_20240720_205249366.mp4
    VID_20240720_205249366.mp4
    283.7 MB
Mixed emotions are completely normal, but a cuckold has the unique ability to turn feelings of jealousy and inadequacy into raw lust. You may feel a little weird about how and why those feelings turn you on but don't fight it.
On the other hand your wife will likely experience mixed emotions as well and it's your job to assure her that this is what you want. She needs to know that you want this and she has your blessing and support to see other men.
 
Mixed emotions are completely normal, but a cuckold has the unique ability to turn feelings of jealousy and inadequacy into raw lust. You may feel a little weird about how and why those feelings turn you on but don't fight it.
On the other hand your wife will likely experience mixed emotions as well and it's your job to assure her that this is what you want. She needs to know that you want this and she has your blessing and support to see other men.
Nice
 
Hey Steve. Speaking from some experience it is much hotter and more fun if you can find a bull that really clicks with her and rocks her world.

There are some activities that you might find hot like guiding him in and cleaning her up that are much more fun if the three of you get along.
I agree. Guiding a lovers cock in and performing cleanup are important for the wife and her lover, showing that you are totally ok with with her pleasures.
 
  • Like
Reactions: SteveP
Hey Steve. Speaking from some experience it is much hotter and more fun if you can find a bull that really clicks with her and rocks her world.

There are some activities that you might find hot like guiding him in and cleaning her up that are much more fun if the three of you get along.
Thanks a lot for the suggestions! Will definitely think of how to go ahead with these!
 
Mixed emotions are completely normal, but a cuckold has the unique ability to turn feelings of jealousy and inadequacy into raw lust. You may feel a little weird about how and why those feelings turn you on but don't fight it.
On the other hand your wife will likely experience mixed emotions as well and it's your job to assure her that this is what you want. She needs to know that you want this and she has your blessing and support to see other men.
Wow, very well put. You're right. I do feel mixed feelings, but I am now better able to turn them into feelings of lust. It does get me turned on and going now haha. I'll make sure to assure her of this too. Thanks!
 
  • Like
Reactions: GrovelingCuck