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So many husband's/bf's want to watch their wives/gf's having sex with someone else. I've often read from some wives/gf's that even though they know it's the one thing that their husbands/bf's want the most, it is inhibiting or a problem for them. They don't want to feel like they are having to "perform". Others say they say and do things they don't do or say when they are alone with their husbands/bf's. One wife I chatted with said her boyfriends are so much better than her husband that she didn't want him to feel inferior and any time he did get to watch she always dialed things back and it was more about him getting to watch than her having fun.

How do you deal with watching? Do any of you wives/gf's deal with any of the above issues?
 
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My wife likes me to be there, She gets a kink out of looking at me in the eye as she sucks his dick, then he slides into her.

However i understand this isnt about me, its about them so i soon leave them to enjoy themselves. I am free to comeback when i want but i feel its important that they get time to relax.

I have been lucky over the years to get several mens consent to place a static camera in the room and its amazing how much more intense and adventerous she is in my absence.

Do i feel inferior to him sexually, yes they are better and different lovers and i accept that, if i satisfied her more than her lover she wouldnt need a lover would she?

I also understand that few men want or understand why a wife would want her 6ft 3 husband present, so have tried to steer her away from this unfortunately my wife refuses to meet another man unless he become a long term lover without me being present.

She wanted us to be in this lifestyle by having two affairs then later showing me with her second lover.

I would love her to come home say she had met a chap and ask can i go out with him, a man i would never meet but i would know was fucking my wife, in a way it would bring me right back to how it all started.
 
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Jeanswatcher said:
My wife likes me to be there, She gets a kink out of looking at me in the eye as she sucks his dick, then he slides into her.

However i understand this isnt all about me, its about them so i soon leave them to enjoy themselves. I am free to comeback when i want but i feel its important that they get time to relax.

I have been lucky over the years to get several mens consent to place a static camera in the room and its amazing how much more intense and adventerous she is in my absence.

Do i feel inferior to him sexually, yes they are better and different lovers and i accept that, if i satisfied her more than her lover she wouldnt need a lover would she?

I also understand that few men want or understand why a wife would want her 6ft 3 husband present.

Unfortunately my wife refuses to meet another man without me being present.

She wanted us to be in this lifestyle by having two affairs then later telling me.

i would love her to come home say she had met a chap and ask can i go out with him, a man i would never meet but i would know was fucking my wife.
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I can understand not wanting to meet someone for the first time without you there, just fro, a safety perspective.

It could also be “her thing” the bit that’s turns her on is your reaction. Have you suggested meeting someone she feels safe with, and you being on zoom or FaceTime?
 
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It she still won’t meet them on her own?
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She refuses to meet anyone for the first time alone, even for a pub meet. I understand the safety aspect but dont see a concern about her meeting a chap in a busy pub as normal couples do. In the main she has had long term lovers, most have become friends of ours and in respect to them she is fine being alone with them, either here, a hotel or their place.

She has had nights away, often stayed over when one of her long term lovers wife is away and i watched bits via zoom. I have taken her to her lovers in hotels too, watched a bit then returned home leaving her there. Thats kinky and i like that.

She even went abroad with a lover we knew well.

The list is endless.
 
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Jeanswatcher said:
She refuses to meet anyone for the first time alone, even for a pub meet. I understand the safety aspect but dont see a concern about her meeting a chap in a busy pub as normal couples do. In the main she has had long term lovers, most have become friends of ours and in respect to them she is fine being alone with them, either here, a hotel or their place.

She has had nights away, often stayed over when one of her long term lovers wife is away and i watched bits via zoom. I have taken her to her lovers in hotels too, watched a bit then returned home leaving her there. Thats kinky and i like that.

She even went abroad with a lover we knew well.

The list is endless.
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Ahhh. So you would like her to meet a stranger by herself. I can see why she might be nervous at that, especially if it’s not the bit that turns her on. I guess you can only hope that it happens spontaneously some day.
 
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decorator_m said:
Ahhh. So you would like her to meet a stranger by herself. I can see why she might be nervous at that, especially if it’s not the bit that turns her on. I guess you can only hope that it happens spontaneously some day.
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I would indeed yes but she is a strange one. A few years since we had a meet lined up with a bloke in a pub, days before she complained a chap had tried chatting her up whilst we were shopping, she even pointed him out. He looked like a normal guy.

We met the bloke in the pub, he was ok and kissed her on our arrival. Within 30 minutes she was sucking his cock in the back of my car. He became a regular lover, is this that different to being chatted up in Sainsburies??.
 
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Jeanswatcher said:
I would indeed yes but she is a strange one. A few years since we had a meet lined up with a bloke in a pub, days before she complained a chap had tried chatting her up whilst we were shopping, she even pointed him out. He looked like a normal guy.

We met the bloke in the pub, he was ok and kissed her on our arrival. Within 30 minutes she was sucking his cock in the back of my car. He became a regular lover, is this that different to being chatted up in Sainsburies??.
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Perhaps it might help if you got her to explain the fantasy that she has in her head. Does she roll play to herself? So is the fantasy being a cheap whore in the pub toilet, but that doesn’t work in the supermarket. Does she (mentally) become a different character when she knows there is sex things happening? A character she is not playing in day-to-day life
 
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I understand your thoughts however for me / us, the best part about me being there watching is that I can see she is acting up a little for me to enjoy. she’ll never fully understand, it’s actually not what I’m looking out for, in fact, it’s that pivotal moment when her body takes over her mind and she is 100% engrossed in enjoying the better performing cock than she usually gets from me her cuck then her slight embarrassment when they’ve finished round 1, the blushing on her face, neck and breast from the intense multiple orgasms she’s just given in to and the total sub to the fact she’s (for that night) going to take full advantage of being allowed to bend over and or open her legs, mouth and ass cheeks for a superior male.
P.s I also encourage her to meet other bulls alone so she can let go of any inhibitions she may hold when I’m there and then I love hearing her lie about how they didn’t do this and that when I know they did as her bull sent me the videos without her knowing. I never tell her that x GIF_1140768603.gifIMG_4463.pngIMG_3837.jpegIMG_1681.jpeg
 

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I understand your thoughts however for me / us, the best part about me being there watching is that I can see she is acting up a little for me to enjoy. she’ll never fully understand, it’s actually not what I’m looking out for, in fact, it’s that pivotal moment when her body takes over her mind and she is 100% engrossed in enjoying the better performing cock than she usually gets from me her cuck then her slight embarrassment when they’ve finished round 1, the blushing on her face, neck and breast from the intense multiple orgasms she’s just given in to and the total sub to the fact she’s (for that night) going to take full advantage of being allowed to bend over and or open her legs, mouth and ass cheeks for a superior male.
P.s I also encourage her to meet other bulls alone so she can let go of any inhibitions she may hold when I’m there and then I love hearing her lie about how they didn’t do this and that when I know they did as her bull sent me the videos without her knowing. I never tell her that x View attachment 2166545View attachment 2166546View attachment 2166548View attachment 2166549
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Thanks for your reply. I realize there are people out there that do not struggle with watching. In your case your wife is even "acting up" for your benefit/reaction/pleasure. That's pretty cool that she does that for you. That moment that you are specifically looking for is what draws me to the whole idea. When she's so into the moment that she totally focuses on her pleasure and even forgets you're in the room. You said your wife is sometimes embarrassed after round 1, can you tell me more about that? Has she talked to you about that and said why she feels that way?
 
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My wife prefers me to be there watching. She gets off seeing me hard watching her and hearing her lovers and I dicuss her and their relationship. This is to enhance our great marriage.

That said, she is a submissive and many guys are a bit intimidated to be rough with my wife in front of me. I have encouraged her to date alone once we trust a man. She did thus on a regular basis with her last couple of lovers. They enjoyed it and with my vivid imagination so did I.
 
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