Whats going on?

So about six months ago I was on a business trip with a male and a female colleague. We stayed at a hotel. We three are super close, infact the female has stayed at our place before as we invited her for a christmas dinner - she's like 10 years younger. Anyway, when I got home from the business trip my wife confessed that she was super jealous asking me if I cheated. She was in tears so it wasn't some made up drama. I've been on a business trip with females before and she was jealous only one other time. A day later she told me that she masturbated thinking of how I cheated with the female colleague. That confused the hell out of me. We haven't really talked about it anymore but I do tease her from time to time with that. Like, "I had a call with X today. A very long call 😉". It's all fun and games.

So today she randomly came up to me asking "So we are getting older, does that mean we have even less sex? What should we do? Swing? Open our marriage?" I was kinda baffled so all I responed with was "IDK". Conversation dropped.

I am not really into cuckolding but I would possibly consider swinging, doing baby steps etc.. I love the idea of watching her getting a massage or inviting somebody to watch us have sex - trustability is an issue though.

Obviously none of you know me or us but I am wondering wtf is going on. Is she testing me? She wasn't pushing the conversation after my "IDK", so was she may just looking for fishing a "NO"?

What are you guys thoughts?
 
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