Whats going on?

[letthewifeplay]

So about six months ago I was on a business trip with a male and a female colleague. We stayed at a hotel. We three are super close, infact the female has stayed at our place before as we invited her for a christmas dinner - she's like 10 years younger. Anyway, when I got home from the business trip my wife confessed that she was super jealous asking me if I cheated. She was in tears so it wasn't some made up drama. I've been on a business trip with females before and she was jealous only one other time. A day later she told me that she masturbated thinking of how I cheated with the female colleague. That confused the hell out of me. We haven't really talked about it anymore but I do tease her from time to time with that. Like, "I had a call with X today. A very long call 😉". It's all fun and games.

So today she randomly came up to me asking "So we are getting older, does that mean we have even less sex? What should we do? Swing? Open our marriage?" I was kinda baffled so all I responed with was "IDK". Conversation dropped.

I am not really into cuckolding but I would possibly consider swinging, doing baby steps etc.. I love the idea of watching her getting a massage or inviting somebody to watch us have sex - trustability is an issue though.

Obviously none of you know me or us but I am wondering wtf is going on. Is she testing me? She wasn't pushing the conversation after my "IDK", so was she may just looking for fishing a "NO"?

What are you guys thoughts?

 

[WNY3somecple]

She might be projecting. Maybe she cheated while you were gone?

 

[Blxx]

She’s clearly open to other men, whether she has or not she’s considered it.

You need to talk ti decide what you both want. No wrong answers. After telling what you both want can you find a middle ground?

 

[Ht805cpl]

So about six months ago I was on a business trip with a male and a female colleague. We stayed at a hotel. We three are super close, infact the female has stayed at our place before as we invited her for a christmas dinner - she's like 10 years younger. Anyway, when I got home from the business trip my wife confessed that she was super jealous asking me if I cheated. She was in tears so it wasn't some made up drama. I've been on a business trip with females before and she was jealous only one other time. A day later she told me that she masturbated thinking of how I cheated with the female colleague. That confused the hell out of me. We haven't really talked about it anymore but I do tease her from time to time with that. Like, "I had a call with X today. A very long call 😉". It's all fun and games.

So today she randomly came up to me asking "So we are getting older, does that mean we have even less sex? What should we do? Swing? Open our marriage?" I was kinda baffled so all I responed with was "IDK". Conversation dropped.

I am not really into cuckolding but I would possibly consider swinging, doing baby steps etc.. I love the idea of watching her getting a massage or inviting somebody to watch us have sex - trustability is an issue though.

Obviously none of you know me or us but I am wondering wtf is going on. Is she testing me? She wasn't pushing the conversation after my "IDK", so was she may just looking for fishing a "NO"?

What are you guys thoughts?

As a female I’m thinking she is still concerned or jealous of you being on trips with another woman, I think she is either try8ng to even the field, or perhaps she already has, meaning she has fooled around thinking you are doing the same. The least thoughts are maybe if you can’t win join in. For us we started swinging at his suggestion, not planned but the first time was with another woman as her husband backed out, it was my first time with a bi woman and it was wonderful so the three of played together often, before long I was envious or perhaps jealous of him with her and asked or told him what happened to swapping or swinging, but we only play with woman so he had no choice but to bring a guy home, it was all over then, I loved it, and wanted more, much more, my point is if she has tasted the lifestyle she probually wants more and wants you to be a part of is so she does not feel guilty or feel she is cheating on you, either way you win. You get to share her with other men and you get to play openly with other women. It’s a win win for both of you! No one looses!