Got to ask here and maybe someone can tell us if were doing something wrong. The wife and I love to have a single guy/bull for her to play with and have tried to find one that wants the same things for a long term reltaionship. No strings, don't expect much other then be d/d free and clean, show up a time or 2 a month and fuck her silly. She is pretty to look at and loves to be fucked. We have over the years had a very few that were good however lately single guys seem to be a huge problem. They talk a good game but either flake before we can even meet or just plain don't show up at all when a date is made. Happened twice in the last 3 weeks now. 1 is a guy we have been with before and liked. Has made several "dates" but either cancelled or just plain didn't show. the other one actually met last week and seemed excited and on the same page. Even got the wife to stroke him at the meet. Was supposed to show tomorrow night but again cancelled before the date night and now won't communicate at all......What the Hell???? All that is asked is he show up, have a drink and take her to the bedroom for some good sex. Just saying this is why single guys have such a problem getting any.
whats wrong with single guy?
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This is a problem all over the World..To single guys,It's a privilege don't mess people around you make it hard for the genuine ones.
I think it is a generational thing with younger guys. They just can not... or will not commit. Or have other issues with nsa sex... and being poly amorous.
Well I had an experience with a couple, the wife was not all that hot, but gave me all the sex I could handle, What freak me out was that the husband was cool with it until he gotten a few drinks in him then wild shit happen. Yelling and all their problems can out. I did set rules and that i needed to feel safe and don't have any family over because its a strange situation. Well the next meet ups were ok After the drinking the yelling starts between husband and wife while i am in the bedroom trying to bust my nut i really felt uncomfortable because the husband would just slam the door when he walks into the room kinda angry like plus the sex was getting to be routine I knew the positions the moves and it was getting tried. I left the relationship for something a little more exclusive for me. that exclusive is that I have a woman that i wanted and didn't have to answer to another man. Now I am back on the hunt looking for NSA couple.
that may be true that they are trying to add to their numbers but most won't even show up at all ever for a meet after they say they will, Just makes one wonder what is wrong with them? Are they just not really interested in getting laid? Do they take care of themselves so much that they are no longer interested in actually fucking and just want their own hand? What happened to the normal horny male that wants to get fucked on a regular basis?
we are starting to wonder if it's more then that.....are men no longer interested in actual sex? Did they all suddenly turn gay?
Lol... Well there has been a push to feminize & wussyfie young boys and men. Dating back to the 70's.
I believe it first started post the sexual revolution of the 1960's. We are now seeing the fruits of that endeavor.
The often misquoted "All sex is rape" and wrongly attributed to the anti-pornography crusader Catharine A.MacKinnon; is still being taught in colleges today.
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Most we find are either full of shit game players, married, or scared. The few real ones we have met, some we say no thanks as they get pushy. So the true respectful gentleman is a rare but good find.
I agree, yes indeed. Moreover, good couples are also hard to find. I've had a few, and they lasted. But like everything else all good things end. Mostly due to job transfers and other factors outside the relationship.
Flaking is a HUGE part of the lifestyle unfortunately. It happens to me quite a bit. I just had a guy flake on me last weekend. It still pisses us off but we do realize it's a part of the game. Your best bet is a QUALITY lifestyle site where you become PAID MEMBERS and post a nice profile with sexy pics. You can narrow your search to the guys you like and those who have certifications or verification from other women and couples.
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Flakes everywhere, like we said. Do you look for guys with Certifications on SLS? SLS is a popular site on the east coast but not so much out west. In any case, we can't help with flakes on any site. We are successful enough though, in spite of the flakes. What part of the country do you live in?
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