This life style is like playing with fire....
Has anyone been burned by it and how
Has anyone been burned by it and how
Who regrets getting into the lifestyle and why
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My wife fell in love with her abusive bull for 2 yrs . He abused her with his friends and I got her back when they were board with her xi love her and we are happy .
I understand there are many happy couples out there with the lifestyle...
But who I like to hear from are couples who regretted or considering a regret of ever getting into the lifestyle; to be honest because I am one of those.
Anyone where the wife gone too far like cheating on her husband (because there was confusion between hotwifiing and cuckolding where in the cuckolding lifestyle the wife has the option to cheat on her husband and he has to accept it) any one?
Also and example where the wife got out of the marriage and run off with he bull, etc. ?
But who I like to hear from are couples who regretted or considering a regret of ever getting into the lifestyle; to be honest because I am one of those.
Anyone where the wife gone too far like cheating on her husband (because there was confusion between hotwifiing and cuckolding where in the cuckolding lifestyle the wife has the option to cheat on her husband and he has to accept it) any one?
Also and example where the wife got out of the marriage and run off with he bull, etc. ?
My wife cheating on me with one of our friends, twice gave one bj's in car and once went to his house for a full fuck session.
I found out after getting suspicious of her being on phone texting and talking, ends contact as soon as she sees me, so, I set a hidden cam in our bathroom since she been spending a long time taking showers. I saw that she was putting on a hot sexy show for someone who I could not tell how through face-time
when I confronted her she insisted it was a guy she just met on line and who she is planning to tell me about, for three days she insisted the same.
On the 4th day we went out clubbing and happen to see our friends there. At the end of the night me and one of them ended up having a few drinks and cant drive. My wife did not drink much so she drove us home, she dropped me off home first and told me she's dropping him off 2nd. I kind of knew the way she was looking at him at the club she had the huts for him and likes to make out with him and give him a bj at least. The thought turned me on too and said ok to her and go for it and I'd be waiting home fore her and so it was done. Telling me how hot it was the making out, the kissing and the sucking.
The next morning she admits to me it was him all alone who she gave 3 bj's to so far and one fuck session at his house.
I liked it at first and it was a turn on, but the thought of her choosing to cheat where she did not have to started killing me. I ended every contact between us and him. Our sex life been mellow and cold ever since. I dont know if it will ever start again.
I found out after getting suspicious of her being on phone texting and talking, ends contact as soon as she sees me, so, I set a hidden cam in our bathroom since she been spending a long time taking showers. I saw that she was putting on a hot sexy show for someone who I could not tell how through face-time
when I confronted her she insisted it was a guy she just met on line and who she is planning to tell me about, for three days she insisted the same.
On the 4th day we went out clubbing and happen to see our friends there. At the end of the night me and one of them ended up having a few drinks and cant drive. My wife did not drink much so she drove us home, she dropped me off home first and told me she's dropping him off 2nd. I kind of knew the way she was looking at him at the club she had the huts for him and likes to make out with him and give him a bj at least. The thought turned me on too and said ok to her and go for it and I'd be waiting home fore her and so it was done. Telling me how hot it was the making out, the kissing and the sucking.
The next morning she admits to me it was him all alone who she gave 3 bj's to so far and one fuck session at his house.
I liked it at first and it was a turn on, but the thought of her choosing to cheat where she did not have to started killing me. I ended every contact between us and him. Our sex life been mellow and cold ever since. I dont know if it will ever start again.
Cheating = lying & dishonesty - it's a recipe for disaster - and all she had to do was ask for 'your blessing'.
I wanted to know about everything she does at least the first time with someone even if she would play / cheated to tell me right after I would not mind and took it as part of the cuckolding thing but to have something going on for about two months with a one of our close friends after specifically I told her "Not to, or things will not ever be the same again" but yet she still went a head and did it until I set a cam and found out.
She had dated a guy for about 2 years, did lots of things with him alone. he was a secret bf of hers until he got married and moved on. They did things together they never told me.. I was all ok with it, but I always knew about him from the start and many others.
But with this one it was different. He was an much older and uglier guy that I did not think she would go for, uses drugs and drinks to get drunk every time he gets, divorced and live in an apartment with his older son. from what I understand he did not seduce her and had all the respect for me from the start but she by her addition came on to him, she told me she loved the idea of him being her sugar daddy, I do not know where that idea came to her about him if he told her or she just thought he has money maybe the way he presented himself, and again she's so hot to pass.
So the bottom line for me it was the principle of it where she did not have to do anything behind my back, all she needed to do is convince me that she wanted him I would of said OK. but instead she chose to cheat. What also sparked my attention that something is going on behind my back; the fun we normally have, the dirty talk and bed fun we normally have.. etc went cold before I cough her and that why I become suspicions to begin with. so, it was not only jealousy, I was loosing her attention for me, being on phone all the time, wants to go out and hang out with them (friends) not wanting to play much or have sex with me as we use to. etc.
She had dated a guy for about 2 years, did lots of things with him alone. he was a secret bf of hers until he got married and moved on. They did things together they never told me.. I was all ok with it, but I always knew about him from the start and many others.
But with this one it was different. He was an much older and uglier guy that I did not think she would go for, uses drugs and drinks to get drunk every time he gets, divorced and live in an apartment with his older son. from what I understand he did not seduce her and had all the respect for me from the start but she by her addition came on to him, she told me she loved the idea of him being her sugar daddy, I do not know where that idea came to her about him if he told her or she just thought he has money maybe the way he presented himself, and again she's so hot to pass.
So the bottom line for me it was the principle of it where she did not have to do anything behind my back, all she needed to do is convince me that she wanted him I would of said OK. but instead she chose to cheat. What also sparked my attention that something is going on behind my back; the fun we normally have, the dirty talk and bed fun we normally have.. etc went cold before I cough her and that why I become suspicions to begin with. so, it was not only jealousy, I was loosing her attention for me, being on phone all the time, wants to go out and hang out with them (friends) not wanting to play much or have sex with me as we use to. etc.
I had serious regrets for a couple years. For years my wife and I were both into the hotwife fantasy. We'd watch gangbang porn and cuckolding porn and she'd make up stories about cheating on me with my buddy or a stranger or getting gangbanged etc. while we had sex and it totally spiced up our sex life. I really liked to fantasize about her going behind my back etc but it was always fantasy and between her and I. She wanted to keep it that way but I wanted to have 1 or 2 real experiences with her and another guy or two, maybe get some of our own videos to watch and go back to the way it was. Eventually we decided to invite our neighbor and friend Jeff over and the three of us had a great time. Even my wife was glad we did it. Well I was still turned on by her going behind my back and so the next day I told her she could fuck Jeff if she told me afterward. I never really thought she would and if she did I assumed she'd tell me. In fact she told me she might do it again but only if I was there. About a month later I was headed out of town on a backpacking trip with some buddies. Our kids were staying with their grandparents that same weekend. I kidded my wife about this being her chance with Jeff and I had even thought about telling him that she was there alone but thought the better of it until the morning I left when he saw me packing up all my shit. I told him obviously that I was headed out of town but then in a moment of stupidity I blurted out that the kids were gone all weekend too. He didn't say anything but I basically gave him the greenlight. Also I had told him previously when we were hanging out two things about my wife. One if she does coke she gets extremely horny and two if you go down on her for about 10 minutes you can talk her into anything. Its not like my wife and I are cokeheads and we hadn't done it for probably 10 years but but she goes nuts when she does. Of course Jeff now knew that and so he scored some coke and stopped by our house that night with it seeing if "she and I wanted to hang out and party" (pretending not to know I was gone). Well as you can imagine one thing lead to another and he ended up banging her till he was spent. She however was on coke and still wanting more and talked him into finding another buddy of his to come over. By then it was midnight and he couldn't get a hold of any of his friends and so after more discussion they realized that the only guy available was his dad who lives with him 8-9 months a year. He has always loved my wife so when Jeff told him what the deal was he was all in. He also brought over his cialis (or whatever he uses) which got Jeff back into working order and they both fucked her until 8 the next morning. I think she would have told me if it was just Jeff but because of what happened she was worried how I'd react and didn't. This lead to her and Jeff having an affair for the next year. During that time she eventually told him all about our sex life and the hotwife fantasy, the gangbang fantasy, etc. She told him EVERYTHING!. Eventually Jeff decided that it would be fun. About a year into their affair he found two guys on craigslist and invited them over and had a fourway. This happened three times with them. He also took her to a gloryhole place in town and had her blow a few guys once (another one of my wife and my fantasies). Eventually he contacted a group of guys that do gangbangs through Craigslist and set up a party for her. The first time my wife got very drunk and let the situation slip out of control. There were 7 guys including Jeff, no one used protection and she let them video and take pictures. I still had no idea what was going on. She would even incorporate some of this into the "fantasy stories" she'd tell me while we were intimate. I was clueless. She ended up doing three more gangbangs with these guys but fortunately after the first time they had to wear condems and no photos. Still my wife was getting concerned about what she was doing with strangers and Jeff eventually decided he'd rather hook up his buddies than these other guys and so he got his dad and some long term friends and its been them only (mainly Jeff and his dad) ever since. They would have her come over while I was at work and the kids were at school and basically do what they wanted. My wife was basically becoming a sex addict and she was their fuck toy. She would be fucking these guys and her and I were actually having more sex than usual. She was horny all the time and still I suspected nothing. In fact I'd often try and talk her into inviting Jeff over again and she never would agree. Anyways I knew these guys fairly well though Jeff and considered them friends so we'd hang out a lot but I still had no idea. We'd be at a party at Jeffs (or at our house) and one or two of these guys would sneak off with her to the bathroom or Jeffs bedroom. The other guys would be getting me to drink shots and hanging out with me basically to run interference.
In any case about two years after she started seeing Jeff I was looking at a amateur cuckold site and lo and behold there is my beautiful wife getting spitroasted in a photo. I couldn't see who was fucking her but I could see Jeff's hairline as he sat back getting blown by my wife (obviously there was a third guy there who took the picture). And Jeff was definitely sitting in his bar-room on his couch at his house with my wife blowing him. I honestly almost got sick finding this online but at the same time I was rock hard. So confusing. I was so mad though that I confronted her immediately. She was caught red handed and red faced but after the shock of being caught wore off she calmly looked at me and said "this is what you wanted and you gave me permission"...Ohhhh no. She was right. We fought back and forth over the next few days and she initially said she'd stop, she also left out a lot of what was actually going on and then that weekend she completely changed her tune. She said she loved me, wanted to stay together but that this was going to happen and she wasn't going to give it up. I was flabbergasted and told her that I would stop it and she was like "well, Jeff and Dave (Jeff's dad) were here yesterday and fucked me for three hours straight while you were at work" It was then she told me everything. I was floored, and pissed, but while she was telling me all this I was also so turned on and she knew it. One thing she explained to me was that the first night she cheated with Dave and Jeff they talked her into trying DP and she had the longest (over a minute) and most intense orgasm she'd ever had at the time and she knew she was hooked. When she was done with the entire story she took down my pants and started to blow me and I swear I came in under 20 seconds. After that I spoke with Jeff and Dave who essentially said sorry dude we'll stop when she tells us no. It was rough going for a long time but after that she included me for the most part. I was always into the hotwife thing but being a humiliated cuckold wasn't my fantasy but the more time goes by its kind of changed. She is seriously addicted to sex and will let these guys do anything they want to her. She'll beg them to do things that I don't even do with her. She is so insatiable sometimes she'll go until she can barely walk and yet she and I still have sex several times a week. I usually just watch when she is with them though I've done some other things that are pretty embarrassing. Its been four years since I found out. Jeff's buddies are around way less these days and in fact I would say Dave is her main bull/boyfriend.
I still go back and forth and it can cause me a ton of anxiety but its also such a turn on to watch her be a slut and hear here talk about the nasty things she wants done to her. Its also a total turn on knowing that she hooks up with them behind my back. It definitely changes you as I am know turned on by the humiliation part or at least the feeling that I'm powerless to stop it. At this point part of me wishes she'd stop but I know I'd miss it.
In any case about two years after she started seeing Jeff I was looking at a amateur cuckold site and lo and behold there is my beautiful wife getting spitroasted in a photo. I couldn't see who was fucking her but I could see Jeff's hairline as he sat back getting blown by my wife (obviously there was a third guy there who took the picture). And Jeff was definitely sitting in his bar-room on his couch at his house with my wife blowing him. I honestly almost got sick finding this online but at the same time I was rock hard. So confusing. I was so mad though that I confronted her immediately. She was caught red handed and red faced but after the shock of being caught wore off she calmly looked at me and said "this is what you wanted and you gave me permission"...Ohhhh no. She was right. We fought back and forth over the next few days and she initially said she'd stop, she also left out a lot of what was actually going on and then that weekend she completely changed her tune. She said she loved me, wanted to stay together but that this was going to happen and she wasn't going to give it up. I was flabbergasted and told her that I would stop it and she was like "well, Jeff and Dave (Jeff's dad) were here yesterday and fucked me for three hours straight while you were at work" It was then she told me everything. I was floored, and pissed, but while she was telling me all this I was also so turned on and she knew it. One thing she explained to me was that the first night she cheated with Dave and Jeff they talked her into trying DP and she had the longest (over a minute) and most intense orgasm she'd ever had at the time and she knew she was hooked. When she was done with the entire story she took down my pants and started to blow me and I swear I came in under 20 seconds. After that I spoke with Jeff and Dave who essentially said sorry dude we'll stop when she tells us no. It was rough going for a long time but after that she included me for the most part. I was always into the hotwife thing but being a humiliated cuckold wasn't my fantasy but the more time goes by its kind of changed. She is seriously addicted to sex and will let these guys do anything they want to her. She'll beg them to do things that I don't even do with her. She is so insatiable sometimes she'll go until she can barely walk and yet she and I still have sex several times a week. I usually just watch when she is with them though I've done some other things that are pretty embarrassing. Its been four years since I found out. Jeff's buddies are around way less these days and in fact I would say Dave is her main bull/boyfriend.
I still go back and forth and it can cause me a ton of anxiety but its also such a turn on to watch her be a slut and hear here talk about the nasty things she wants done to her. Its also a total turn on knowing that she hooks up with them behind my back. It definitely changes you as I am know turned on by the humiliation part or at least the feeling that I'm powerless to stop it. At this point part of me wishes she'd stop but I know I'd miss it.
sorry you all went through that..happy to hear you all are together and doing well..
If one really wants to be in this lifestyle the subject of bad experiences is one of the most important. One can learn from the bad experiences.
I'm not surprised that this thread is not one of the most popular on the forum since we come here because we're horny dogs and we are looking for something to excite our imagination.
I wish there were more interaction about what did went wrong and what we can learn from it.
Hope you get my point.
I'm not surprised that this thread is not one of the most popular on the forum since we come here because we're horny dogs and we are looking for something to excite our imagination.
I wish there were more interaction about what did went wrong and what we can learn from it.
Hope you get my point.
From my limited experience, let me tell you that I've encountered a superior number of cheating wives vs. couples.
I'm not into drama so I don't appreciate the trouble that cheating can bring to one's life.
If one's into cuckold, it is expected that the couple is into it and the husband is aware of the situation.
Of course the horny dog in me will accept a one night stand with a cheating wife but I'll certainly prefer being the man making a cuckold couple fantasy true.
I'm not into drama so I don't appreciate the trouble that cheating can bring to one's life.
If one's into cuckold, it is expected that the couple is into it and the husband is aware of the situation.
Of course the horny dog in me will accept a one night stand with a cheating wife but I'll certainly prefer being the man making a cuckold couple fantasy true.
whiskeytrot
Couple
Been in the lifestyle for nearly 30 years and I can tell you that we didn't get one bad experience. Maybe we went about it in the right way? We certainly had a solid relationship and this lifestyle was an addition, not an instead of. Selecting the right couple or bull was a slow but careful process but rewarding in the end. I suspect there will be very few stories of regret on here because they would've left it it hadn't worked.
farmbitch
Male
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