our first was with one of my wife’s ex boyfriends. For us, it has worked out. It continues to require many discussions between the wife and me but we communicate very openly with each other while ensuring everything feels right. Feel free to DM if you want to talk more about it.
You'd think this might be the case, but it didn't work that way for us. There's some couples who are great in bed together but just can't live with one another. My soon to be wife felt sorry for her ex, long after she and I started living together. One night she'd been at her old house with him (he bought her out of the house) signing real estate papers. We'd already played with the idea of her having sex with him again as in her words "He knows how to fuck me." Without making this a huge long story: she came home in tears and I knew what had happened. She felt bad because she hadn't told me it was going to happen and didn't want to lose me. "He was so horny, and hasn't had sex since I left and I felt so sorry for him and was letting him touch me and it all went from there. I wanted it," she said. I just led her to the bedroom, undressed her and was in her in seconds. We had explosive sex (I was having seconds) and from that point on it was much easier for us to talk about it and for months I enjoyed hot seconds and cleanup fun with my soon to be wife. When her ex found a girlfriend we all moved on and she and I married.
In short — no resolution of past issues. Bit if they were … That was my point.
This has been our experience too........most ex's are ex's because of how they treated each other OUT of the bedroom, not because the sex was bad. Usually the relationship carried on longer than it should have because the sex was GREAT. So the chances of them getting back together are not very high, or if the idea does come up they quickly remember why they are EX's!! LOLLOL But the sexual component of a relationship like this can be FANTASTIC!! All they have to do is LOVE TO FUCK!!! They don't have to deal with each other outside the bedroom. Don't be the least bit surprised if you end up with them desiring a pregnancy together because of the intensity and knowing they don't have to deal with raising it together!!
That is true. My last ex the bedroom was not the problem… once she got mad, I didn’t fuck her in the ass enough. I mean, sorry, I will try to do better.
That's pretty much how it worked for us. There was times when my wife was having sex with her ex more frequently than with me, as I traveled for work and would be gone several days a week. And although my wife wanted to sever ties with her ex, she couldn't say no to him when it came to sex. That really frustrated her, but the fact was that he knew how to fuck her and if she was horny, her answer would always be yes. The PG risk added to the heat.
