Wife bed with an elderly man soon?

Smallfly

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Recently, my wife got to know a new friend. A mature man, about 50 plus. Not exactly handsome but looked quite manly. Quite big size, with a beer belly. As I noticed, she usually like older guys. Maybe she liked the feeling of a fatherly figure type. I asked her about him but she said he is just her company's client and nothing more.


But I suspected that she might have liked him or maybe even more. So I checked her mobile phone on one occasion when she was taking a bath. She did not have the habit to lock it, as she knew I did not bother to check on her before.

What I saw, was an eye opener. They were chatting about sexy stuff, which is so weird. I even took my own phone to snap several photos of their conversation as I got no time to slowly read thru, just in case she came out of the shower. It went something like that (will skip those normal messages, which is not relevant):

UNCLE: Do you know you are very pretty! Baby!

WIFE: Please don't say that. You probably said it to every new woman you met! I wasn't born yesterday.

U: No, I am sincere. I only said it to you! In my eyes, you are really beautiful! Really!

W: Oh is it? You really know how to make me happy. Thanks for your kind compliments :)

U: I hope you won't mind me saying. Excuse my language, I always hard when I chat with you.

W: Excuse me, what do you mean? What hard?

U: Oh... I mean all men will have that hard thing below when turned on. Hope you don't mind me saying it to you now.

W: Oops... OK sorry...

U: No need to say sorry. You really have the power to make me feel that way.

W: Oh.. hehe, I didn't know I am that powerful to have a big effect on you.

U: But I like that feeling..

W: OK, I can't control your feeling. Then just be yourself.


There are more messages, if you would like to read more. My question is:

Do you think she will want to have more happenings with him?

Should I tell her, I had saw their messages?

Should I stopped them before it's too late or just let it flow to see how it goes?

Pretend nothing had happened but kept monitoring her movement. I have to admit I wasn't angry but did have a certain degree of curiosity and maybe even some excitement that she may have an affair! What's wrong with me?

Hope to hear more from your comments and advices. Thanks
 
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Recently, my wife got to know a new friend. A mature man, about 50 plus. Not exactly handsome but looked quite manly. Quite big size, with a beer belly. As I noticed, she usually like older guys. Maybe she liked the feeling of a fatherly figure type. I asked her about him but she said he is just her company's client and nothing more.


But I suspected that she might have liked him or maybe even more. So I checked her mobile phone on one occasion when she was taking a bath. She did not have the habit to lock it, as she knew I did not bother to check on her before.

What I saw, was an eye opener. They were chatting about sexy stuff, which is so weird. I even took my own phone to snap several photos of their conversation as I got no time to slowly read thru, just in case she came out of the shower. It went something like that (will skip those normal messages, which is not relevant):

UNCLE: Do you know you are very pretty! Baby!

WIFE: Please don't say that. You probably said it to every new woman you met! I wasn't born yesterday.

U: No, I am sincere. I only said it to you! In my eyes, you are really beautiful! Really!

W: Oh is it? You really know how to make me happy. Thanks for your kind compliments :)

U: I hope you won't mind me saying. Excuse my language, I always hard when I chat with you.

W: Excuse me, what do you mean? What hard?

U: Oh... I mean all men will have that hard thing below when turned on. Hope you don't mind me saying it to you now.

W: Oops... OK sorry...

U: No need to say sorry. You really have the power to make me feel that way.

W: Oh.. hehe, I didn't know I am that powerful to have a big effect on you.

U: But I like that feeling..

W: OK, I can't control your feeling. Then just be yourself.


There are more messages, if you would like to read more. My question is:

Do you think she will want to have more happenings with him?

Should I tell her, I had saw their messages?

Should I stopped them before it's too late or just let it flow to see how it goes?

Pretend nothing had happened but kept monitoring her movement. I have to admit I wasn't angry but did have a certain degree of curiosity and maybe even some excitement that she may have an affair! What's wrong with me?

Hope to hear more from your comments and advices. Thanks
Smart wife........
 

Smallfly

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Aug 29, 2022
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Damn so 50 = elderly! We are in our 60s so definitely older but certainly don’t feel elderly and still having funfun
Yes, way to go! She told me he said 50 plus but she also thought that he might be over 60 but did not want to tell her so..
 

Smallfly

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I kept monitoring her messages. Yesterday they were chatting about their sex life with their spouses. Why would she be talking to her client about all this sexy stuff, instead of work related topics.


UNCLE: I hardly do it with my wife!

WIFE: Why not?

U: She is like a dead fish! She got no interest. Anyway, after so many years, it was getting bored. I really need a change! What do you advice?

W: Hmmm... Maybe go try some hooker?

U: Hooker only know how to rush you and get over it as soon as they can. Wasting time and money!

W: Well.. maybe find some one night stand?

U: Would still prefer a long term lover. Those that have a strong passion for sex and lust, especially those neglected married women. I loved those!

W: Well, good luck to you in your conquest :)

U: I had told you mine, now you tell me yours. How often you do it with your husband?

W: Hmm... Not often. Maybe once in a fortnight!

U: What? That is too long. With a sexy wife like you, should have been daily if I were him!

W: How I wish too!

U: What a waste! Is he good when doing it?

W: Oh... not really. As usually only five minutes and it was over.

U: So fast? You won't be able to enjoy much like this! I can last at least thirty minutes!

W: Really? That would be real fun..

U: I'm telling you the truth.. You wanna try it?

W: ... :)


It was so obvious that he was trying to bed her. And from their conversations, I thought likely she would be tempted soon. My mind were in a spin, when I kept reading it over and over again. And when I asked her what she was texting with her client, she told me, trying to fox some business meeting! What a big fat lie! Is more like, trying to fix a sex meeting on bed instead!


 
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I mean his body size is quite big built, not his thing big (That is what my wife told me)
It's not so much the size of a cock as how the man uses it. And it's not just the cock either. A lot of us who are older guys know how to control and use a woman beyond what we do with our penises. It's as much mental/emotional as it is physical. Make them want to obey and serve us.
 

Sgt Ray

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VERY well said, Handyman Dan. So very true.

A lady once told me "a huge penis is very
stimulating visually. But if the man doesn't
know how to make love or use it, he might
just as well buy a hinge and put it on that
big penis...so he can stick it up his ass"
 
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VERY well said, Handyman Dan. So very true.

A lady once told me "a huge penis is very
stimulating visually. But if the man doesn't
know how to make love or use it, he might
just as well buy a hinge and put it on that
big penis...so he can stick it up his ass"
Thank your, yes! I just returned to my computer and found your post. I like her comment.

The overall effect is what matters most. Beyond the cock, how does a man use his hands on her tits, face, ass, hair? How does he talk to her? With us older men there is often an innate respect factor in the woman that makes her inclined to obey. The right reinforcement on our part goes a long way.
 
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Sgt Ray

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Ahhh, YES! The right reinforcement.
My GF is NOT a sub. But she very much enjoys a man who is in control.
Especially of her organisms.
 
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Ahhh, YES! The right reinforcement.
My GF is NOT a sub. But she very much enjoys a man who is in control.
Especially of her organisms.
Yes, that's what I mean. They will soon respect a man who makes them cum or delays it. Too many men use the "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" approach. But if a man works a woman up, varying his cock motion (even pausing at times) and works her tits, with his hands, that will do the trick. A certain amount of discipline helps,, too. Not going overboard but enough to let her know that I am in control.
 

Sgt Ray

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Sounds like it shud be to me...
My GF LUVS her tits sucked, rubbed, etc.
Has even orgasms just from her tits sucked.
 
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Sounds like it shud be to me...
My GF LUVS her tits sucked, rubbed, etc.
Has even orgasms just from her tits sucked.
A lot of men don't pay enough attention to a woman's tits. I don't hesitate at all to grab them and fondle them (clothed or naked). Just the fact of cupping them or groping tits is a nonverbal communication that I am in control.

Even women who are initially less sensitive to tit manipulation can be trained to respond more to it. Just takes a little time and effort. I like to teach them what their bodies are capable of.