Recently, my wife got to know a new friend. A mature man, about 50 plus. Not exactly handsome but looked quite manly. Quite big size, with a beer belly. As I noticed, she usually like older guys. Maybe she liked the feeling of a fatherly figure type. I asked her about him but she said he is just her company's client and nothing more.
But I suspected that she might have liked him or maybe even more. So I checked her mobile phone on one occasion when she was taking a bath. She did not have the habit to lock it, as she knew I did not bother to check on her before.
What I saw, was an eye opener. They were chatting about sexy stuff, which is so weird. I even took my own phone to snap several photos of their conversation as I got no time to slowly read thru, just in case she came out of the shower. It went something like that (will skip those normal messages, which is not relevant):
UNCLE: Do you know you are very pretty! Baby!
WIFE: Please don't say that. You probably said it to every new woman you met! I wasn't born yesterday.
U: No, I am sincere. I only said it to you! In my eyes, you are really beautiful! Really!
W: Oh is it? You really know how to make me happy. Thanks for your kind compliments
U: I hope you won't mind me saying. Excuse my language, I always hard when I chat with you.
W: Excuse me, what do you mean? What hard?
U: Oh... I mean all men will have that hard thing below when turned on. Hope you don't mind me saying it to you now.
W: Oops... OK sorry...
U: No need to say sorry. You really have the power to make me feel that way.
W: Oh.. hehe, I didn't know I am that powerful to have a big effect on you.
U: But I like that feeling..
W: OK, I can't control your feeling. Then just be yourself.
There are more messages, if you would like to read more. My question is:
Do you think she will want to have more happenings with him?
Should I tell her, I had saw their messages?
Should I stopped them before it's too late or just let it flow to see how it goes?
Pretend nothing had happened but kept monitoring her movement. I have to admit I wasn't angry but did have a certain degree of curiosity and maybe even some excitement that she may have an affair! What's wrong with me?
Hope to hear more from your comments and advices. Thanks
But I suspected that she might have liked him or maybe even more. So I checked her mobile phone on one occasion when she was taking a bath. She did not have the habit to lock it, as she knew I did not bother to check on her before.
What I saw, was an eye opener. They were chatting about sexy stuff, which is so weird. I even took my own phone to snap several photos of their conversation as I got no time to slowly read thru, just in case she came out of the shower. It went something like that (will skip those normal messages, which is not relevant):
UNCLE: Do you know you are very pretty! Baby!
WIFE: Please don't say that. You probably said it to every new woman you met! I wasn't born yesterday.
U: No, I am sincere. I only said it to you! In my eyes, you are really beautiful! Really!
W: Oh is it? You really know how to make me happy. Thanks for your kind compliments
U: I hope you won't mind me saying. Excuse my language, I always hard when I chat with you.
W: Excuse me, what do you mean? What hard?
U: Oh... I mean all men will have that hard thing below when turned on. Hope you don't mind me saying it to you now.
W: Oops... OK sorry...
U: No need to say sorry. You really have the power to make me feel that way.
W: Oh.. hehe, I didn't know I am that powerful to have a big effect on you.
U: But I like that feeling..
W: OK, I can't control your feeling. Then just be yourself.
There are more messages, if you would like to read more. My question is:
Do you think she will want to have more happenings with him?
Should I tell her, I had saw their messages?
Should I stopped them before it's too late or just let it flow to see how it goes?
Pretend nothing had happened but kept monitoring her movement. I have to admit I wasn't angry but did have a certain degree of curiosity and maybe even some excitement that she may have an affair! What's wrong with me?
Hope to hear more from your comments and advices. Thanks
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