Wife hasn't mentioned potential cuckolding or chastity in 2 months

[drakebelg]

On march 2nd after an amazing month of being locked, denied and being a good serving subby (3rd time in six months), she gave me a blow job and made me cum. She was away for 2 days and said we'll discuss the chastity and potential cuckolding when she comes home. She was on bumble premium but she was more interested in going to a local swingers sauna alone, it was recommended by a slutty friend.

That's 2 months ago and still nothing. We used to have a new routine about talking about our sex life, chastity , potential cuckolding, fantasies, etc... once a week and that hasn't happened either.

If you are wondering why I don't bring it up it's because for the last 10 years I have been the instigator for every discussion and trying new things. We agreed that she was in the driving seat so I should wait for her.

I'm not allowed to instigate sex so that happens about once a week and mostly with the big penis sleeve due to my severe PE.

This waiting is very difficult though. Not even an agreed upon weekly talk, and I'm absolutely craving to be locked up and cucked, but again it was agreed she would be the instigator, and the same for cuckolding.

Should I open my mouth or shut up and wait like a good subby?

 

[SubTob]

On march 2nd after an amazing month of being locked, denied and being a good serving subby (3rd time in six months), she gave me a blow job and made me cum. She was away for 2 days and said we'll discuss the chastity and potential cuckolding when she comes home. She was on bumble premium but she was more interested in going to a local swingers sauna alone, it was recommended by a slutty friend.

That's 2 months ago and still nothing. We used to have a new routine about talking about our sex life, chastity , potential cuckolding, fantasies, etc... once a week and that hasn't happened either.

If you are wondering why I don't bring it up it's because for the last 10 years I have been the instigator for every discussion and trying new things. We agreed that she was in the driving seat so I should wait for her.

I'm not allowed to instigate sex so that happens about once a week and mostly with the big penis sleeve due to my severe PE.

This waiting is very difficult though. Not even an agreed upon weekly talk, and I'm absolutely craving to be locked up and cucked, but again it was agreed she would be the instigator, and the same for cuckolding.

Should I open my mouth or shut up and wait like a good subby?

Definitely keep your mouth shut! You've had clear instructions and any pushing will only put her off.

I'm in a similar situation, C felt pressurised when she used to put me in chastity and let me clean etc. Now she dates who and when she wants, tells me what she wants to, keeps me celibate and just edges me and allows me to serve her. It's heavenly. You just need to adjust and accept that your wife will do whatever she wants and that's all that really matters.

 

[wormwood]

Anything you do runs the risk of seeming to "topping from the bottom".
I would have a very hard time not bringing some aspect of it up when she desires the sleeve. She could possibly be testing you during those times when she wants you to use the sleeve on her.
Do what you feel is right

 

[drakebelg]

It's difficult but I think I need to shut up.

On her request I had to fuck her just now hard and fast with the sleeve for about 10 minutes. She loved it and had 2 intense orgasms. She said she needed it.

Lol 🤣 I came again in the sleeve within a minute but kept going. I'm even a 1 minute prejac in the sleeve.