Wife is driving me crazy

[iamno1tou]

So, my wife is thinking about doing her ex to get started, she thinks it will be more comfortable for her since she knows him. But she keeps going back and forth with it, I told her to close that door and we will be done with hotwifing forever, she hasn't and or will not. Keeps saying I'm all she needs, no one can compare, not sure how to get her to just explore hot wifing for the enjoyment of it, sometimes she gets excited by the thought, then she says gotta wrap my head around this. we both come from cheating backgrounds and vowed not to do that again. So I guess it's a win she is thinking about it, how do I help her increase her desire for a new something (cock), and tips, advice??

 

[needblackpussy]

Cheating backgrounds as in she cheated? If so on whom?

 

[iamno1tou]

Cheating backgrounds as in she cheated? If so on whom?

We both cheated, her on her ex husband, hat trick 3 in One day

 

[needblackpussy]

You could try to convince her to instead start out chatting and sharing a few pictures here with you to get her off without taking any actual risks. That might help her move into the idea of fucking the ex

 

[iamno1tou]

You could try to convince her to instead start out chatting and sharing a few pictures here with you to get her off without taking any actual risks. That might help her move into the idea of fucking the ex

We actually sent pics and a video of me fucking her to her ex, and he sent one back masterbating to the video .. that's why she is making me crazy and horny...

 

[needblackpussy]

Well, I would invite her to continue doing that at least or to have her own account and do the same here. Once it's been awhile and she sees you truly are into her being "hot" I think it will go your way

 

[iamno1tou]

Well, I would invite her to continue doing that at least or to have her own account and do the same here. Once it's been awhile and she sees you truly are into her being "hot" I think it will go your way

Well.. she doesn't like these sites and would be passed if she knew I was on here getting advice, so that is a whole another issue..lol

 

[needblackpussy]

I think it's as simple as training her with positive rewards. Whenever she acts dirty or like a hot wife, give her positive rewards and praise. It may be slow but it will help.

 

[iamno1tou]

I think it's as simple as training her with positive rewards. Whenever she acts dirty or like a hot wife, give her positive rewards and praise. It may be slow but it will help.

Okay I like that she said she will try role playing via text, me acting as if I'm her ex... we will see how that goes

 

[needblackpussy]

Make sure that ends with mind blowing sex and be willing to give her non sexual rewards too for being bad

 

[iamno1tou]

Well.. she doesn't like these sites and would be passed if she knew I was on here getting advice, so that is a whole another issue..lol

Pissed not passed

Make sure that ends with mind blowing sex and be willing to give her non sexual rewards too for being bad

Any ideas of what rewards?

 

[needblackpussy]

Just try doing thoughtful husband type stuff, you want her to know the marriage overall is going to stay good and you value her more than just as a sex object

 

[iamno1tou]

Just try doing thoughtful husband type stuff, you want her to know the marriage overall is going to stay good and you value her more than just as a sex object

Thank you good advice.. I keep trying to reassure her and massage her and cuddle..etc...

 

[JaknSuz]

You need to nix the idea with her ex. That can lead to trouble quicker than you realize. Ex's are ex's for a reason, and need to stay that way!

 

[needblackpussy]

Thank you good advice.. I keep trying to reassure her and massage her and cuddle..etc...

I'd love to see more of her

 

[toolman2c]

You need to nix the idea with her ex. That can lead to trouble quicker than you realize. Ex's are ex's for a reason, and need to stay that way!

good advice, find a new stud, or a friend that's a real cocksman..