Pretty straight forward. Just wondering at what point you thought "why didn't I try this sooner?"
Wives who were against the lifestyle at first: what was your "ok this is great" moment?
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The minute my bulls thick nine incher went balls deep in me.
I get hard picturing you meeting a new bull with over ten inches an thick hitting bottom in your pussy.
I don't have nine inches but I'd love to give you what I have.
Literally was a life changing moment.
You didn’t want to up until that point? How did your life change? What did you think?
I've asked myself the opposite question. Since we started the lifestyle within months of getting married and graduating college, we've been going strong for 40+ years. It has dominated our lives - except during child rearing years when the kids took priority. No regrets - but I do wonder what a "normal" life would have looked like early in our marriage.
What changed? What did you think? Did you think “this is fun, I love this, there is no reason not to do this?” Or something else?
So... new info. Turns out the wife is against swinging because her last marriage was an OPEN RELATIONSHIP which of course was mainly her crummy two bit criminal ex fucking girls they had threesomes with after she fell asleep (and I’d guess totally without her). They were always on E and Charlie and no rules were observed. She has a poor opinion of swingers and thinks the healthy ones I’ve met online are putting up a happy front and you can’t read their body language ... I said we should meet some in person. She didn’t recoil from the suggestion. Also suggested we take BDSM classes as she’s very comfortable with BDSM and hat about any non swinging kink...