Sometimes yes but it's definitely not related to a feeling of jealousy or spite. Actually there was a time when we were maybe 2 years into dating. She was probably 23 at the time and we were at this house party. Everyone was young, drinking, and partying. We were already in the lifestyle with an open type of relationship. A bunch of us went out to a bar/club did a bunch of drinking and then came back. I was looking for my GF knowing there was a good chance she was fucking someone because she was drinking and told me earlier she was horny and planned on having sex.
Anyway I go upstairs and walk into one of the rooms and see my GF on her knees getting her face fucked really really hard by a guy who I fucking HATED. And behind them I saw a guy laying in bed like he was asleep but his eyes were clearly open like he was watching. As he was ramming his dick down her throat he turns to me and just gives me an obnoxious grin.
There is a bunch more to this story but to keep a long story short I was not at all turned on by it and did not have sex with my GF that night. I definitely had some kind of an anger and maybe jealousy issue with it but it definitely did not turn me on.