Young couple 25 uk update and advice please

[Madcouple25uk]

Hi forum long time no posting lol sorry guys. Started my p.h.d in femmist studys this year. Buy a second hand car for a guy called tony 50 very tall and well build but has cheeky mean face lol.
Me and boyfriend become quite friendly with tony chatting texting back and forth etc. We both made cheeky lie and backstory for tony saying my boyfriend is impotent and addicted to internet porn. Both have confided in tony and we all get on well. Just a bit neavous and dont know know to escalate things. Any advise or ideas would welcome hope we not sound crazy.

 Emma

 

[Goodtyme]

Hi forum long time no posting lol sorry guys. Started my p.h.d in femmist studys this year. Buy a second hand car for a guy called tony 50 very tall and well build but has cheeky mean face lol.
Me and boyfriend become quite friendly with tony chatting texting back and forth etc. We both made cheeky lie and backstory for tony saying my boyfriend is impotent and addicted to internet porn. Both have confided in tony and we all get on well. Just a bit neavous and dont know know to escalate things. Any advise or ideas would welcome hope we not sound crazy.

 Emma

Start slow. The guys is technically still a stranger right? So start slow like we did.. I’d suggest setting some rules and boundaries internally first if ya haven’t already. The first time I’d make sure you host .. control the environment by sticking to familiar settings until more comfortable.. just telling ya based off experience. Dm if you’d like to discuss further

 

[tunisian_bull]

Maybe u should start giving a hint about cuckolding , saying that ur bf watches it a lot
And if he asks u what u think about it , say it's a bit confusing but somehow hot
Let him try to convince u maybe

 

[Madcouple25uk]

Start slow. The guys is technically still a stranger right? So start slow like we did.. I’d suggest setting some rules and boundaries internally first if ya haven’t already. The first time I’d make sure you host .. control the environment by sticking to familiar settings until more comfortable.. just telling ya based off experience. Dm if you’d like to discuss further

Thanks for input do you think backstory was a good idea or mistake?

 

[tunisian_bull]

Thanks for input do you think backstory was a good idea or mistake?

I think it was a good idea , like breaking the ice and starting a conversation about something sexual without being too obvious .. and that can bring a lot of other subjects afterwards

 

[Goodtyme]

Thanks for input do you think backstory was a good idea or mistake?

I would advise not manufacturing stories in the future. It’s already done now and this is your first time so it’s just a beginners kind of thing. Always promote being honest with all participants. If you want the guy to respect your relationship then you gotta respect him to. And at the end of the day just about every scenario regarding this lifestyle and discussions that lead to certain things happening it’s pretty easy to tell once something is 100% true. Especially if this person has experience or is older with generally just more life experience. It’s not too big of a deal this time, but in the future, if someone interest both of you then just be honest about it. After all, it boils down to you wanting to share her and her wanting to be shared and feeling supremely attractive ,wanted, desired, etc. at the same time feeling she has your support in this. It’s only physical only sexual on the surface but it’s much more in terms of your relationship, her confidence in herself AND you… the other party should always have the honest and clear intentions always as it promotes trust between all plus… most people in the life know this and will conduct themselves in the same way sorry for the rambling!!