It has always been extremely exciting to me to hear my wife invite a lover back or tell him she's his whenever he wants her. It can be inconvenient, however, when he shows unexpected and we have family with us. Or when we are just getting ready to go out. Anyone living this lifestyle knows how creative solutions are called for when this happens. It would be fun to hear how others pull it off when family is in the house, yet the wife and her BF are horny and just have to have each other.