LONG story, but a former Lover is in prison. We keep in contact by mail, email, and occasional texts. He is trying to convince me to come for a conjagul visit, claims he cam make it happen. And that he wants to arrange for me to do conjagul visits with other inmates!! They wil pay him for my efforts. Have to admit that it is an interesting idea, but I haven't worked up the nerve........yet.......hubby keeps telling me I should go and see if it works!! J (the wife)