Recent content by coastalkid

Well, finally! It's about time she owned up to her behavior (at least to some extent)! She must be having some amount of self realization that she's pushed you and her attitude to the breaking point. I'm sure you're skeptical and deservedly so. I'd say call her out on following through with...

Been there! I don't envy you!

Sometimes it sucks, and not in a good way! I'm not going to let it ruin my buzz though!

Just checking in on you. Any new revelations?

I'm beginning to believe that she never was or has been cheating on you. I think she's addicted to tormenting you and she can't stop herself. She has projected her anger towards he ex onto you. She probably hold a spot in her heart that hates all men and she feels the need to point out the...

Has your husband begged you yet?

My wife and I are doing fine, thanks for asking. We are finally in a place where we have more and better sex than ever before. I wish we had gotten to this place much earlier in life but it is what it is. The important part is she's far more interested in sex now. She's showing pride in her...

You sound like you have experience and knowledge earned over the years. The part of your reply that I highlighted seems to be a lost consideration and reason many of these relationships ultimately fail. You can't be oblivious to the experience of ALL those participating (in whatever form that...

Any updates on the ongoing situation? Have you moved out of the bedroom? How has your wife responded to your attitude and what has her attitude been like?

Great for fantasy but the real truth will always be that no one owns anybody. "Sexual ownership" is not a concept that is grounded in reality. I think people lose sight of the idea that the excitement of sex is fleeting and doesn't dominate the balance of time spent in a relationship. All of us...

Get yourself moved out of the bedroom! Make your stand!

You've done your due diligence! She's had every opportunity to turn things around. This is ALL on her now!

Since her main pleasure seems to be tormenting you the best thing you can do is deny her the opportunity. Work on a project in the garage. Go to the pub. ...... in a spare bedroom or the couch or the garage, whatever but don't bother with ...... with her. Let her know you don't want some pity...

I'm glad you confronted her. She's on the road to ruin, all of her own making. I agree with Samsar, your marriage is in shambles. I feel terrible for you! You deserve SO much better. She is not going to change until she does some serious self examination. It's clear she will stand on the fact...

Do you think that's going to happen? Has he shown any signs of changing his attitude? How curious are you about why your husband dislikes this guy so much? Have you asked this guy what he thinks is the reason your husband dislikes him? If you go ahead and have sex with this guy your husband...