Recent content by coastalkid

It says a lot when they don't ever bring it up. She knows she can bring it up during sex and it's not the same as talking about it or making comments about it outside the bedroom. Clearly though, some aspects of the whole scene are still tumbling around in that head of hers to mention another...

You're right, I do. Even though I know it's an inevitability. There's always someone bigger and better. It's when I ask ask myself the honest question as to how I would process this is when I have my doubts. When I remove myself from the equation and I liken it to dancing and dance partners, I'd...

This is much closer to the reality. I would go even further and say that MOST women aren't "wired" that way. My wife is a perfect example of your description of lacking confidence in her attractiveness. And yes we have been married a long time so that goes along with your "long, faithful...

I'm just now seeing this. Do you suppose that she feels like she tried it, got a good idea of what it was really like and it just didn't have enough appeal for her. Could it have anything to do with the personalities of the guys she has hooked up with? Maybe they have influenced her by being...

When your husband travels and you go out to meet new men, do you go to the same place(s)? I would think these places (the people that run them and frequent them) would begin to remember you. Let's face it ANYBODY would remember you! From what I understand you don't live in that large of a town...

I wish my wife was interested in using dildos. It seems like it's an either "I love it!" or "I don't like it at all!" thing with women and dildos.

You look delicious!

Any ideas on how to convince a reluctant wife to want to use dildos?

You said recent. Is this still going on? Are they still together? If they are, how involved is the husband? What's your take on him?

Givin' it to her good!

I have read/heard that many women don't have orgasms (or not often) from vaginal penetration. I''m SO thankful that my wife does! A lot of my my own self esteem is wrapped up in whether I can give my wife an orgasm. We've been married a long time (47 years) and it used to be that my wife always...

Unless I've missed that this is a game that you and your husband have played before and BOTH admit it gives BOTH of you the thrill you're BOTH seeking, then I'm back to asking, have you asked and REALLY discussed why your husband doesn't like this guy? Have you shared with this guy that your...

I love it (not really, I loathe it), "She went all spiritual and told me how it is wrong and no way she can think about such a thing!" Infrequent, routine sex nearly ended our marriage. It created a lot of resentment. I'm glad she (my wife) came around. He attitude stole my joy of life for...

I don't have a hot wife but I chose to get a vasectomy. My wife had been on birth control pills for a long time and it was starting to make her skin blotchy and have other side effects. We were done with having any children so I decided to step up. Everything I heard about it wasn't bad, an...

We're in our 60's and not in "the lifestyle" but we tease each other about it A LOT. My wife's orgasm is SO much more important to me than mine is. I figure if I/we/her ever do get in "the lifestyle" I want to her to look forward to her orgasms and her pleasure. That's why I always try my best...