Recent content by Cuckoldcouple99

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    Massage

    Strangely it feels hard to find a man who could do the massage. Short of going to actual dating sites or something the normal massage places in the area are all so female heavy and if you search for male specific postings its like a minefield of gay dudes to pick through.
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    Massage

    Is there a best practice you all have related to finding good massage therapists that are ok with sensual massage, but otherwise are professionals? Wife is showing interest in this, and I want to make the most of it. Searching for something reputable is harder than I thought.
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    Yea, interesting enough me being more assertive seems to be a thing she enjoys. She seems to enjoy it most when I tell her what I want her to do, when she talks it is like she is doing it only for me (and doesn't get much out of it). Maybe I will 'tell' her I intend to do it on a certain date or...
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    Yea I would actually like to opt for something more 'stranger' adjacent but she hasn't been interested at all, won't even look really.
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    Update is, she has said, 4 times now in the last month, while we are doing stuff, that if I invited a friend of ours in for a threesome she would be interested in doing it. The guy in question I have known for a long time, we are good friends who regularly hang out, he is married with a kid...
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    So the latest update here is that she has actually started talking to a guy that goes to our daughters cheerleading practice (another dad of a different girl). She said they started sitting together and she admitted to being attracted to him. During dirty talk she was very much into fantasizing...
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    Nah that's not the case. We are super domestic. Work and taking care of our kids. There is literally no time to socialize with other adults unless we explicitly make time to do it. I also probably have a way different definition of cheating then you do. If she went out there and fucked around...
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    So an update, she said she most likely would be willing to go to a like low key social swinger type meetup in the summer. Just to see what it's all about. It's funny we ended up having a discussion on the like stakes, she had, I think, an impression that any dive into the hotwife/swinging scene...
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    So how do you actually find local swinger clubs?

    Like google searching this kind of stuff just seems like I come across shady ....... Is there a particular website I should be signing up for. Or a particular place to go where these things are publically hosted or applied for? Thanks,
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    Well, something really interesting just happened. I had a talk with her the other night about how serious I was about it and while she was reluctant as she always was she did agree to at least play some games with me. Just had her go to the store for some food for the family and told her to keep...
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    Where would you even find an adult theater lol? Sorry I am super new to all of this beyond just fantasy.
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    That's an interesting idea of just having someone watch us. I may bring that up next time we are getting into it.
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    Wife knows now, next steps

    The background on this is; I didn't actually have this fetish until we were fucking around one day and she was talking about past sexual experiences and mentioned her ex boyfriend fucked her while his brother watched. She said the brother got out his dick and she basically showed him her tits...