Recent content by Deezire

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    We've been stuck on the doorstep...

    Seeing the sex therapist was HER idea and ask. She came to me. And I spent considerable time (year and half) listening, learning, understanding and warming to the idea. Understanding why she desires this. Understanding her needs. And I totally get it now. I have told her this in private and...
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    We've been stuck on the doorstep...

    Thanks for this helpful advice. She travels alot for work and usually eats at the hotel restaurant bar. You may be on to something...
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    We've been stuck on the doorstep...

    We have been stuck on the doorstep for about four years. I married up for sure to a gorgeous woman who literally dated a different guy every week all thru college. At the time she was strict religious no sex before marriage girl. Fast forward 20 years, sexual liberation and couples work with...
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    Grower not a shower at a LS resort

    Thanks that is an interesting point I never considered about "size chasers". That is helpful.
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    Grower not a shower at a LS resort

    My wife and I (52/50yo)are heading to Desire in Mexico this summer. She is free to play and gets all sorts of offers all the time. She's in a word gorgeous. She will be topless there the whole time. The issue is I am a grower not a shower. This has been a speedbump in some potential swaps. I...