Grower not a shower at a LS resort

[Deezire]

My wife and I (52/50yo)are heading to Desire in Mexico this summer. She is free to play and gets all sorts of offers all the time. She's in a word gorgeous.
She will be topless there the whole time.

The issue is I am a grower not a shower.
This has been a speedbump in some potential swaps. I am very small when at rest.

Erect I am 5.5x5.8in
So I know I am decently thick but.... How do I politely advertise this vs the showers? This is an honest question. I know I am not porn star length but my girth isn't shabby. But we had women turn us down for a swap bc I just don't look very big. I'm not long I know that.

 

[Cuckcoupleforfun]

Just reach them on a personal level. Size chasers will always go after size. Not much can be done.
Have fun and if not come and pound my wife

 

[Deezire]

Just reach them on a personal level. Size chasers will always go after size. Not much can be done.
Have fun and if not come and pound my wife

Thanks that is an interesting point I never considered about "size chasers". That is helpful.

 

[Cuckcoupleforfun]

Thanks that is an interesting point I never considered about "size chasers". That is helpful.

People like what they like.

 

[SilverStag]

None of us have any control over how our maker endowed us. Many big guys don't know how to handle their equipment. If a woman judges only by dick size, then she is in for a lot of disappointments. Further if that is her only requirement, are you sure you want to play with her anyway?

I am of average size and have been to plenty of events and parties where I was among the nude throng. I learned not to worry about that and focused on showing a big personality instead. I usually get selected for play by a lady or two and while they may not be 10's, neither am I, so I try to "stay in my lane"

It is a difficult conversation to have, but finding a way to mention your other attributes is a good start. Having your wife or another playmate vouch for you with something like "You should see it when he gets going!" or similar endorsements helps.

 

[cuck4life]

We visit many Lifestyles Friendly Clothing Optional Resorts in the Southeast USA. I can promise you women look and make comments about cock sizes.

 

[GoodTimes40]

Have you ever taken cialis? Even if you don’t need it, you take it and you’re walking around with a log for days.

 

[Bigdaddy24]

Never really thought about this…wonder if I am a grower or a shower?

 

[kort6776]

you've got to go with the cards you were dealt. the viagra idea offered might work

 

[Vincenzo]

Embarrassed when flacid, not terrible when hard 🤷‍♂️

 

[Vincenzo]

We visit many Lifestyles Friendly Clothing Optional Resorts in the Southeast USA. I can promise you women look and make comments about cock sizes.

My ex wife and her best friend and I used to frequent a nudist camp in Indiana. Without a doubt they do, and theyd ask me abiut them too...women are way worse than men...lol

 

[Vincenzo]

Never really thought about this…wonder if I am a grower or a shower?View attachment 1826893View attachment 1826894

Other than the veins, doesn't look like much size difference

 

[Vincenzo]

Just reach them on a personal level. Size chasers will always go after size. Not much can be done.
Have fun and if not come and pound my wife

Very true. My wife is a size queen. So we are always looking for a blessed guy (other than our regular) to join us.

 

[Vincenzo]

you've got to go with the cards you were dealt. the viagra idea offered might workView attachment 1826912

I feel your pain

 

[Vincenzo]

My wife and I (52/50yo)are heading to Desire in Mexico this summer. She is free to play and gets all sorts of offers all the time. She's in a word gorgeous.
She will be topless there the whole time.

The issue is I am a grower not a shower.
This has been a speedbump in some potential swaps. I am very small when at rest.

Erect I am 5.5x5.8in
So I know I am decently thick but.... How do I politely advertise this vs the showers? This is an honest question. I know I am not porn star length but my girth isn't shabby. But we had women turn us down for a swap bc I just don't look very big. I'm not long I know that.

We have the same issue, I'm quite small when flacid, and has been a deal breaker a few times or shell spend most of her time with her husband and my wife while I crank it

 

[Fredposer2017]

Quid Pro Quo... Just play a pair.

 

[GoodTimes40]

Embarrassed when flacid, not terrible when hard 🤷‍♂️

Def don’t do that with viagra. Cialis is not as strong and lasts much longer (days as opposed to hours). It won’t give you a hard on, but instead plump you up for a few days. Makes it easier to get a hard on, but doesn’t force one.

 

[Vincenzo]

Def don’t do that with viagra. Cialis is not as strong and lasts much longer (days as opposed to hours). It won’t give you a hard on, but instead plump you up for a few days. Makes it easier to get a hard on, but doesn’t force one.

Wasn't me who had mentioned viagra. But Cialis is the better of the 2? I don't have any issues with getting it up (yet, lol) but might be interested in the plumping it up for our visits to the nudist camp😊

 

[Vincenzo]

My wife and I (52/50yo)are heading to Desire in Mexico this summer. She is free to play and gets all sorts of offers all the time. She's in a word gorgeous.
She will be topless there the whole time.

The issue is I am a grower not a shower.
This has been a speedbump in some potential swaps. I am very small when at rest.

Erect I am 5.5x5.8in
So I know I am decently thick but.... How do I politely advertise this vs the showers? This is an honest question. I know I am not porn star length but my girth isn't shabby. But we had women turn us down for a swap bc I just don't look very big. I'm not long I know that.

I'm the same, sometimes being a grower has its disadvantages....me soft n hard

 

[cuck4life]

I am neither a grower or shower. My exwife actually said my cock and balls looked to be about 1/2 scale size to other guys she had seen. My wife and I now visit nudist resorts all over the southeast US. I am in pretty good shape with a nice flat stomach and shave my cock and balls so what you see is what you get. I got over over being under endowed may years ago and actually enjoy the looks I get while walking around the pool.