Am I a Cuckold or Stag?

Hi All,

I am just curious if based on the below, anyone would consider me a cuckold or stag?

My ebony wife, over the past decade, has slept with many women for me. She loves women (she is very bi) so she sleeps with women by, in her words, putting on lesbian shows for me. I get to coordinate the scenes to see what i like and then, after it is all done, my wife and I end up fucking to complete the evening. (the other girl doesnt participate when we fuck).

My wife was also an escort many, many years ago and gave blowjobs to older white men, but it was for money, so I dont think that scenario counts much in this forum either.

I know it’s only a label, but because I am sharing my wife with women, to this point, does it make me any of the common labels on this site? (I do want to share her with a man - soon!) Just wondering what others here think with the labels…not that it really matters. Thanks again if you read this!
 
Hi All,

I am just curious if based on the below, anyone would consider me a cuckold or stag?

My ebony wife, over the past decade, has slept with many women for me. She loves women (she is very bi) so she sleeps with women by, in her words, putting on lesbian shows for me. I get to coordinate the scenes to see what i like and then, after it is all done, my wife and I end up fucking to complete the evening. (the other girl doesnt participate when we fuck).

My wife was also an escort many, many years ago and gave blowjobs to older white men, but it was for money, so I dont think that scenario counts much in this forum either.

I know it’s only a label, but because I am sharing my wife with women, to this point, does it make me any of the common labels on this site? (I do want to share her with a man - soon!) Just wondering what others here think with the labels…not that it really matters. Thanks again if you read this!
Why do you need a label? We started out with other women joining both of us, then other men joining us then couples, then some group play on to orgies, at times she was gang banged and at times she just enjoyed being with another man or woman, I was allowed to play both with her and others. Today it is mostly other men joining us as a couple and at times I will just sit back and watch. If I or we need a label I’d say we are just a hot horny swinging couple! It is all what you both make it, more important to enjoy what ever it is your doing than to be labeled but I’d say you are far from being a cuckold.
 
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In my point of view (hubby) what distinguishes a stag(or just a horny husband living an open relationship) from a cuckold is how much one has given up in terms of control or influence over his sexual life to his wife and her predicates.

Cuckolds grant the helm for the wife and her bulls to point directions.

But many men likes to share and see their wives going all the way down the slutty road, but they also remain active participants in this journey. That's our case for example, and that's why we see some cuckolding fantasies a little unfit for us.

You probably wouldn't see yourself as a cuckold, either -- although terms are just words.
 
In my point of view (hubby) what distinguishes a stag(or just a horny husband living an open relationship) from a cuckold is how much one has given up in terms of control or influence over his sexual life to his wife and her predicates.

Cuckolds grant the helm for the wife and her bulls to point directions.

But many men likes to share and see their wives going all the way down the slutty road, but they also remain active participants in this journey. That's our case for example, and that's why we see some cuckolding fantasies a little unfit for us.

You probably wouldn't see yourself as a cuckold, either -- although terms are just words.
we agree with your concept of stag or cuckold. Like we said why the need for a label, We are just two horny people having fun. Sounds like you are the same way. Enjoy!
 
i dont believe you fall in the cuckold category. neither a stag.
the most basic with these two categories is that they get enjoyment, watching their wife get pleasured by a more well-endowed male. you have not mentioned whether you have done that so i assume not.

you fall in neither.

dan