Recent content by Lapster

I would have thought with your logical well-reasoned approach along with being open with your wife about your fantasy you would be in the "done it" category by now. Women can be tricky when it comes to sex. I hope it happens for you soon.

Thanx for the follow.

I have been seeing my recent couple close to a year now. Complete and total blast when you know them as friends. Trust and transparency are the keys to success.

Thanx for the follow.

Well to help you I would need to get more information about your relationship, her personality type, reasoning for not wanting to fulfill your fantasy, etc. Let me know if you are willing to give some background. We can do it here or by DM.

Well first thing to know before anyone can give you advice is what is her reasoning for not wanting to fuck another guy for you?

Holy s%$t I love her hips, breasts, thighs, et al BTW I live in Alabama. I would love to chat if you are interested.

Well her comment when blindfolded gives you the go ahead to bring a dancer for her on another "surprise occasion". My absolute, first and foremost, key message to you is that you want to avoid a "bad encounter", because the "uncomfortable emotions" of a sexual situation gone wrong will...

I hate fakes. This is a picture of Elaine who is the well known female half of a stag/vixen couple. Their username is Elaine4Blk on several sharing sites.

I wanted to give you a quick list of some of the issues you have to address typically with your wife/girlfriend for all encounters. This list isn't comprehensive and it isn't all fun and games, In fact most of these are risks which you need to mitigate down to a level of acceptable risk for the...

I have been involved in the Lifestyle for over 30 years as the male half of couple and also as a solo male. I also have a lot of knowledge about psychology. Private message me, if you are interested in my analysis of your situation.

I posted this on another thread on a similar topic. My wife and I didn't want to come out because there can be consequences of someone outing lifestyle couples viciously. Unfortunate that there are those type of people in the world, but they exist. I have seen it happen to others personally. It...

Great. I would love to hear how things go. That is the fun part for me and why I spend the time offering advice. I always like to remind guys making the introduction to their wife and approaching a guy to join you and your wife that what I propose is a "framework" with ideas, but it can't cover...

Yeah I would always go, if you like to watch. My partners never went solo. Some guys are into that scene the woman dating. I am not one of those guys; I am a voyeur who wants to watch her have sex. Don't let her go anymore without you, because you're hoping by letting her go solo once or twice...

I warn against" telling" when initiating the discussion with your woman but prefer "asking". An approach I might try if I was you is to frame a first question "I really enjoyed the positive, excited feelings I noticed in you from having your nude photos taken. I loved that change in you. What...