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    Desperately needing advice

    Great advice. Thanks
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    Desperately needing advice

    ****UPDATE**** So, I missed a golden opportunity to talk about the cuckold thing with my wife. Here's what happened. We were talking about my Niece and her husband, my Niece is bi and brings home girls that her and her husband mess around with. My wife jokingly ask, "would you care if I had a...
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    Desperately needing advice

    ***UPDATE*** I've brought up having sex several times, and my wife always blows it off. Thoughts or advice?
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    Desperately needing advice

    Well, we didn't have sex. We watched IDOL instead lol Holy fuck the girl that plays Jocelyn has an amazing ass!
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    Desperately needing advice

    ***UPDATE*** It's looking like me and my wife will be having sex tonight... Is there anything that I can "do physically" that might help her start thinking about sex with another man? Not anything 'verbal', I know that we're no where close to that yet. But, anything "physically"?
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    Desperately needing advice

    Great advice. I will do that.
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    Desperately needing advice

    I am so thankful to have finally found this community! I have been struggling with this for a very long time. The idea to 'fetishize' my wife cheating was actually the idea of my Findom(Financial Domme) on Twitter. It has really helped me see light at the end of the tunnel. And, now with the...
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    Desperately needing advice

    ***UPDATE*** Today I brought up us having sex. I have some new pills that we have never tried. One of her friends told her about them. Any advice on the sex? Anything that I should focus on, or possibly try to accomplish? If I can't get hard and perform, I'll have her 'queen' me, she likes...
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    Desperately needing advice

    She said she cheated because we we hardly had sex and I wasn't giving her attention. Guys were ALWAYS hitting on her at the bar. Picture Austin Kincaid, but with a much more attractive face.
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    Desperately needing advice

    If I have problems getting hard then that will be an easy transition is to us doing what ever it takes to make her happy. This cuckolding At least that makes sense to me. How about you? Yes. I agree. And the signs make it look like she was probably cheating often. Just being real.
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    Desperately needing advice

    Great advice. I will try to get our sex life back on track then move slowly from there. Any suggestions on how to approach it once the time is right?
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    Desperately needing advice

    ***10yrs ago my wife cheated, we were married 7yrs at the time. She was a Bartender before we got married and was one until about 1yr after she cheated. ***Wife: 5'5", 140lbs, long brown hair, brown eyes, very attractive. 37yrs old when she cheated. ***The GUY: 6', white, her age, muscular...