Recent content by StaggedCuck

You have a very blinkered view which you continue to try and force on discussions, you don't seem to have the ability to consider that things can be different for other people. This can clearly be seen by the way you once again feel the need to use capitals to highlight words YOU think are...

It I know it is a lie, I think saying that and the downplaying is due to her feeling embarrassed now. It could also be hurt if as we suspected he dumped her?

A lot more talking, she gives me details but tries to make it out was just basic missionary fucking. I have decided I do want to give it a go with her, but she knows things have changed and she has to be open, honest and up front in the future, If we decide to go down the original path we...

Mine starts reluctantly but opens up bit by bit either when we are both really turned on or when I have a memory of an occasion and question her

What brought back the trust?

You echo my thoughts, attention & booze = one night stand, not 6 month full blown affair. My view of her has changed the trust will never go back to the level it was at, we just have to build an understanding for the future if there is to be one.

I thought so, although we had the work pressures on our time like most couples do

I respect your view and I am certainly not a full on cuck. Option 1 & 2 are what were on my mind and I have gone down the first for now.

I do genuinely believe she knows what she’s done and she seems very committed. But as you it’s just that niggling think in my mind as to how she reached that decision. A case of did she jump or was she pushed?

She has always been fairly submissive in bed but definitely more so now. I don’t know if it is because she feels she has to or wants to. Or if it guilt and wanting to be punished. She doesn’t verbalise it, it’s her body language.

#139 It’s still a mix of anger and hurt which I know try not to let her see as much and yes turned on, it does end in fucking sessions but with me being the dominant one. When I am alone i Do get off on the detail, ii seem more detached

I totally agree with you, it is what I have been trying to express here. Before we can move on with any such relationship we do need to deal with what happened we can’t go forward without mutual understanding and trust.

Yes he did, although she denied it at first. She said it was over the sofa. I said it didn’t make sense he would have wanted her in our bed, the whole point of coming round. Slowly she relented and admitted it. Really hard to express my feelings right now, i want to know everything, suspect a...

I brought up a few more times that sprung to mind and she admits a few more times that had evening together including one here.

Thank you