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I hope this poll is not going to be a downer for anyone but as my wife and I are still in the first steps of fulfilling our fantasies, I can't help but thinking about the cost of doing that. We have a great open relationship. Are we risking it? I guess that there is some risk but I can't...

How did you know he was into her? What kind of arrangements? Who drove this? You? Your wife?

Everyone here have the story about the first bull. Who was it for you? Who made the first move (husband/wife/bull)? If you made the move - how did you get him to do it? Was he the right choice for you? For us it was my wife's boss who made a move on her during a business trip. We were talking...

When you started this journey, did you agree on any rules? Are there any rules that you recommend having? Are there any rules that are bound to be broken? We are a couple in our 40s and we talked for a while about trying to add someone. I also told her that if there's someone that she wants...

Which one? Any recommendations?