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You might want to consider renaming it Battery Operated Bull for her to get her mindset closer to a real one ;)

Hey there, I'd like to know if anybody has some interesting links to articles on hotwifing that give an explanation in a female friendly manner. I'm more after mainstream kind of stuff, that is easily accessible for my wife for any next step we take on the process when she wants to know more...

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How would you mean "give it an opportunity to come up sometimes"? Like when we're having sex and introducing the dildo some times? or do you have other things in mind?

Thanks for your advice. I think its also breaking that ‘been there done that’ stance she’s taken… she seems to have closed that chapter of her life when she was a free single woman having fun, when we started our relationship.

UPDATE Now, an interesting thing happened. We were watching a TV show. What's it about is a few couple are separated and each stay for 2 weeks in a resort only with hot singles of the other sex to party for 2 week to test their relationship, fidilidy, trust, etc. They get imagery from whay...

Why have you not had sex in 18 months?

Cleaning her in what way?

Boosting a very relevant post to the top.

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So what would you consider "a little more"?

Yes, this is true. When horny, she'll be more open to talk about it. But for now, its very fresh and I dropped a big bomb and I'll leave it for a bit and see if she mentions something about it... for example during sex, or when we're out or she's kinda flirty with someone (she does that...

UPDATE So somewhere last week; we had a real conversation about the fantasy and what I'd really like. Unlike the initial reactions she had when we spoke about this (as mentioned above), she actually got pretty upset this time. Now, we talked about it some more the day after and again yesterday...

I think you are right. The general idea behind this - also for the original poster of the thread - is to introduce a kink in THEIR sex life... that of the husband & wife. It should not matter who brought up the idea and how ran with it. Apperantly you guys are in a phase where you move this from...

That's great advice. Thanks a lot. So what would you consider "support" and "encouragement"? Pointing out other guys to start the conversation on this? Or would you think this is too much "pressure"?

So how would you read into the context here? If she says that but continues to be curious?

Thanks guys!

I fully agree with you. But to be fair to her, it was one of her first reactions after hearing it. Whilst surprised, she was actually quite mellow in her response. Not weird or angry at all; she just didn't understand why I would want that. So, I guess I need to find out from future...

Thanks so much for your advice. Much appreciated!!

I'm 33 years old. My wife slightly older at 38. We're together now for 8 years and we have a ...... (6). Basically my wife, 5"4 tall, slim (size 4), blonde, C-cup, and very hot (although I'm biased), before we got a relationship was not shy of being a single woman with (several) FWB situations...