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You are amazing! Seeing this and reading your posts, you are a dream come true. Seriously!

Been there, done that, same results. I too bought my wife a Lovense Vibe as a surprise. It didn't go over well either. She didn't get upset or anything. She just didn't care for it. She doesn't seem to like any toy that is inserted in her. Her tried and true Hitachi Magic Wand is her one and...

Oh man! I am with you! My favorite thing is to hear how people make it work over time. What do couples do to keep fun things fun and everyone content? Iahotwifeshusband is great example of trials and tribulations. And he's been here through it all with us good and bad. I've learned a lot from...

If she says something like she's worried that his cock is not going to be "all that" she has imagined, then that's something right there. She makes it sound like if he WAS attractive AND he WAS well endowed then she has given the impression that she would consider it. There is the aspect that...

Five years is a long time to go without any sex. Do you masturbate to take care of yourself?

I agree that the "equality of the sexes" comes with uneven or unwanted application. I also have no doubt that the men that respond with, "I get my pleasure from seeing her happy!" are genuine. Those men are getting what they want and expect from it so, everyone is happy and satisfied. There's a...

I'm convinced that wives that masturbate place a greater value on sexuality altogether.

Are you talking about a "Womanizer"? I'm pretty sure you are. I've thought a lot about getting one of those for my wife. I think she might like it. They aren't huge or loud from what I've read. My wife loves her Hitachi Magic Wand. I think she might be receptive to the Womanizer. Do you use any...

My wife has only had one toy she uses. Her go to favorite is her Hitachi Magic Wand. I say "go to" but she never uses it to masturbate on her own. So obviously it's not such a draw that she has to have it. She only uses it when we have sex. She'll have several orgasms with it regularly...

I'm serious, you should replace those toys! Do it, at a minimum you'll be entertained with whatever outcome. What will she do?

Oh yeah man! The inconsistencies is the the mind boggler to me and have been since I've been on this and another forum. Something that is similar in my particular case as yours is the "pervert" label. My wife knows I watch porn. She doesn't like watching it and tolerates my watching it. We tried...

Maybe you should just "replace" the toys with larger toys. Leave it in the box where she left the ones you "replaced". She'll know you know and if she really can't help herself she'll use them. I guess eventually she'd take to being better at hiding her toys but all the same she'd know you know.

Since you are going to wait until the new year which do you think will help you get what you want, keep her talking about it or leaving it alone in hopes that she convinces herself one way or the other?

I'm still stuck at her revealing, "She knows all the ways NOT to be found out." I almost sounds like she was being spiteful when she said it. I may be reading more into it then how it sounds. I wonder what she thought when she said that? Did she think that providing that tidbit would make you...

Seems to me that hubby needs to reply to that message!

I loved this post! Far too often words and actions are disregarded. Just like when people say, "It's just sex!", but it gives the impression it's something more. Words and actions will always conjure up reactions and responses differently in different people. I learned this from being a...

I agree with you. There's a lot of ground work that has been done to get to this point. If that counts for nothing then it was a sham, a shell of of what you thought it was. The draw is exactly the thing. Will it result in better and more fulfilling sex life for the both of us? Would the risk...

I have to ask you now that it's been a year for you, what else has changed for you besides being more "fluid" and "natural"? How is your (for lack of a better word) anxiety level now? Is it all but gone now? Is there any sort of "new routine" that has been established? Has any of the "newness"...

Feeling inadequate is one of my fears for certain! I realize there will always be bigger, better men out there and truthfully what good would it be if her experience was something less than her typical experience with you? However witnessing it, hearing it or being told about it is whole...

Any updates?