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    The Netherlands or Belgium

    Flanders Belgium here.
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    Is this a soft or hard no? What next?

    Great feedback, thanks. I think gentle and patient nudging is the way. It's finding the right way to do it. I'm definitely stopping with pushing on the ex due to her pride being hurt by him. If he hadn't gone for the other woman I am almost certain he would have launched her as a hotwife. The...
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    Is this a soft or hard no? What next?

    This is a very good point. Thank you. I will not mention him to her anymore. I am very sure though that she will mention him again sometime. Way back in 1993 they were together only for about 3-6 months. They were serious (I really liked him, great sex, funny, hung,...) but she didn't want to...
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    Is this a soft or hard no? What next?

    My wife is very private with her feelings of love and lust so I need to think about all the small pieces of conversation and signs a lot. Getting experienced help and insights is also really helpful. Back in 2018 I had very strong suspicions that my wife was dying to fuck her hung ex who was...
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    Her realising I really mean it-positive progress.

    I had to write this down to get my head around it. Let me know your thoughts and tips for my next steps. Making it very clear to my wife I want her to fuck around. 17/09/2023 19:00 A positive update. We were watching a rugby match of Fiji v Australia and she started talking about one player...
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    A fun fantasy or potential for start of hotwifing because wife has started talking again about her huge dick ex?

    Nash, we both like her being loose and she is way beyond tightening up. It's part of the turn on that the biggest bulls in the world could plunge straight into her and pound her hard. There is no need to hold back.
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    A fun fantasy or potential for start of hotwifing because wife has started talking again about her huge dick ex?

    Advice for moving forward would be appreciated 👍. Here's an update, sorry it's a lot of info, some maybe more relevant than others. No major progress but definitely some progress made. I am going through some business issues so our sex life was a bit routine. Just to frame it, she is not...
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    Need advice on my strategy to convince my vanilla wife to cuck me.

    So what if she freaks out. She told you her huge ex was her best lover and she won't admit to cheating you twice, so she deserves to be freaked out. Use a big sleeve to show her the slut she is and it will make you feel like a stud to be able to fuck her properly. Do you know the size of her...
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    Need advice on my strategy to convince my vanilla wife to cuck me.

    Definetly use a cocksleeve without telling her and fuck her to bits with it. A good cheaper one is the Tommy Gunn.
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    Need advice on my strategy to convince my vanilla wife to cuck me.

    Make sure she is having as much fun as possible. Why don't you invest in some high quality cock sleeves. Thye are much better than dildo's. Checkout Blisssfull Creations. My wife loves having me fucking her with some huge ones and lets her enjoy the fantasy but with just the two of us. You...
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    A fun fantasy or potential for start of hotwifing because wife has started talking again about her huge dick ex?

    She also has a fantasy of being with another woman to experience it, so when that comes up I think I will tell her she can have one free pass for a woman and one for a guy with a huge dick.
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    A fun fantasy or potential for start of hotwifing because wife has started talking again about her huge dick ex?

    Because she certainly doesn't want to, and I don't proably want it either. Maybe watching her with one guy would be okay but not a train.
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    A fun fantasy or potential for start of hotwifing because wife has started talking again about her huge dick ex?

    They haven't bumped into eachother since about 2 monstha and she doesn't mention him. She wanted me to describe a sex roll play scenario I would like to do and I wrote one to her. I wrote to her that she is a blindfolded submissive hotwife. I would fuck her to pieces with different big cock...
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    A fun fantasy or potential for start of hotwifing because wife has started talking again about her huge dick ex?

    Now and again we use the John Holmes strapon but she prefers the big cock sleeves and her favourite is the one she says is his size (a monster 10.5x8).
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    The right steps with wife to try big cock

    What one did you get? Warm it up before hand.
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    I bought some penis sleeves, which one better for my wife

    My wife prefers more realistic full sleeves that make me much bigger. I've nver used anything as small or textured as these.
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    Is permanently loosening my wife another way to get her to be a hotwife?

    It's used for prepping women for giving birth but we took it to another level lol. This is the official way for a woman by herself. If the partner is doing it just use fingers instead of thumbs: "Place your thumbs 3 to 5cm or an inch inside the vagina. Your fingers can be resting on your...
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    Hotwives in the workplace

    In Belgium it's still reasonable. There is much more respect for the women, the men are more careful but can still flirt both ways. You make a very good point. Let the ladies give clear signals before we say anything and even clearer communication before we do anything. I had a nice colleague...