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You must be registered for see element. Hope her husband is into humiliation! About as public as it gets :devilish:

Just wanted to say thanks for your amazing and thoughtful reply, CuckmeCleveland - my silence until now hasn't been because of lack of interest, quite the opposite: I've read and reread your post a lot of times already, and will be replying when I can do justice to your generous donation of time...

Oh, do tell!

I was about to clarify and say that those are her two *different* types - in some ways they're opposites of each other, and I've never known her notice or mention anyone who ticks both boxes. I certainly don't. But once again you've made me think. What if we did meet someone who was rough and...

Not me, that's who! I love the picture you paint there CmC. There's definitely some mileage in this approach too. We know each other insanely well in most respects - the non-sexual questions about Anna's preferences I can easily just answer - but I'm finding lately that there's a whole bunch of...

Thanks Ray, good advice. I very carefully tend to do that when it feels ok. Anna is a sexual person, but she's a bit all or nothing - if I remarked on a guy when we're doing the supermarket shop, I'd get a weird look or just ignored. But if we're out without kids and chores, she's quite...

That's really good AI! What did your friend use to do that, do you know? I haven't found any safe way of producing NSFW AI content beyond text, certainly not of that standard. Most AI sex apps are barely functional versions of someone else's lame fantasy. I'd love to have a go with this one...

This is very helpful, wormwood. I think you're right that I need to emphasise the jealousy *more* not less. Probably the biggest barrier, and danger, is that Anna may think this is all because I don't really care or value her. Obviously the opposite is true, but it must be really confusing for...

She totally is. I'd love to show her, but that's too risky from where we are right now. She's mid-40s, curvy, classy, and *very* pretty. Her appearance, especially her face, is often compared to Catherine Zeta Jones or Victoria Beckham - but she looks like a real woman instead of skinny and...

I hope you're right Ray! I think there's a definite possibility, if I get this right. I appreciate your take on it. Maybe she does have 1-1 fantasies as well? I didn't think she had any in this area before a couple of weeks ago, but apparently she has! And actually, right now Anna doesn't...

I would love to do that, but we're some way away still. Anna's blindsided me by turning out to get off on slut fantasies, but hasn't given any hints about real life play - that still feels unattainable. Even making a profile for fantasy use is a step too far right now I think - definitely...

It's a good suggestion Hwc, we're a bit funny about porn though. It's a tricky one. Most of my porn is amateur/voyeur, and is of women who remind me of Anna in scenarios I'd like to see her in - but I *know* she'd hate my Anna-a-likes. I like her curves, she hates them. It would derail things I...

This helps a lot, as does the advice in the rest of your post, thanks. I really hope you're right, and if I can get back around to Dr Letch I'll definitely be adopting your approach. Maybe somehow working back around to him is the answer to my own lengthy question!

Tl;dr: How do I steer Anna's newly admitted crazy slutwife orgy fantasies towards my tamer, more intimate but more doable cuckold scenarios? ~~~~~~ Sorry for the long silence, and thanks for the advice guys - things immediately took a left turn after the doctor business, Anna had a...

That's hot. I suspect Anna dated during our separation a few years ago - she denies it now, but when things weren't good between us she said otherwise. There's a particular guy I've never got on with (k*ds go to same school as ours) who's always been my prime suspect. He's Anna's other type...

For some reason I can't send or reply to messages! Apologies to those who have contacted me, I do want to reply but I can't!

Well, I haven't yet. But I might be a little further along than you. My wife Anna is fairly conservative, but more importantly struggles to get her head around the actual concept of this. She has been quite active in fantasy play sometimes, but then another time seems totally not into it...

Wow, amazing! How do you feel about it now? I'm pretty sure we'd all appreciate any details you'd like to share about how that came about and what happened! Does hubby get to know yet?

Tbf, the whole cuckold thing is quite weird in much the same way. But still way, way easier to understand than this one!

It's weird. I still don't know if Anna did date anyone at that time - at the time she told me she was dating (in order to hurt me, which it did, just that wasn't the only feeling I had!), and then after we got back together she denied it. Very convincingly. If she did, I think I have an idea...