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Is her ...... from the ex husband? Do you have any interaction with her? Do you know anything about what the ......'s attitude is towards her father?

Did she catch her ex cheating? She seems preoccupied with him. I don't know if it's love or hate. I know you said he left her for a younger woman. Pardon me if this is a wrong assumption, do you feel like she's taking it out on you for her husband leaving her? I understand of course that his...

Man, my heart goes out top you brother! One of the worst feelings you can have is to not be motivated to have sex with your wife, especially when you crave an exciting sex life with all your heart. It's crushing to have your desire taken away from you by your spouse. I struggle with resentment...

It sounds like she's playing a game that will ultimately end badly. She'll become more and more cavalier and it will progress to being foolhardy. Eventually she will become so confident that she won't feel the need to be cautious and indifferent to trying to hide it from you. She simply won't...

Thank you for the kind word on my post. I've always wanted an exciting sex life. I've learned over the years of being on this site and another more about what I DON'T want than what I do. I ran into the "Three Horsemen of the Sexual Apocalypse" during the course of our marriage, a conservative...

I read the responses here and I can't tell what to think. On one hand there's the ubiquitous group of husbands/bfs that absolutely crave the humiliation whether the wife/gf is into or not. They can't get enough of it. I'm sure it must be difficult for a wife/gf to understand it, especially if...

I guess that's somewhat good news. Still, there's some tough times ahead.

You need to talk to her now and get it off your chest, and I do mean your chest because this sounds like an anvil on your heart.

What was your personal revelation? I understand if it's too personal to share.

I don't doubt the hurt you're feeling! I'll bet you're ready to just blow up! When you say "the end for us" do you mean for the lifestyle or do you mean for the two of you?

Regarding your "new arrangement" phase. It's great that your are excited about it. I'm sure that helps your wife. So, what is the plan? Is the "bull" from your hotwife friend a transitionary player in your scheme? If he is, have you talked about how long you'll need him? Is there a goal to...

Regarding your "awkward situation" post, I'm curious to know how much discussion you had with her about your rules and limits? Did she give you her opinions about those? I have a sneaking suspicion that she was curious about what you got out of the situation and if you had any issues with...

No, I never found out what the hell solutions are on this site.

Yes, I most definitely am turned on by finding women that look like my wife. My wife is a BBW and the instant I see those skinny porn star looking young things I scroll on! Those girls are sometimes just TOO perfect!

I think that was going to happen anyway!

Looking back, I realize there were some forces at work that I didn't anticipate the issues. I ran into a "perfect storm", a three headed monster, a very conservative Christian upbringing, post-partum depression, and menopause. They came in waves, one after the other. I wish I had been more aware...

Thanks, sincerely! We have discussed our differences and to her credit she has made an effort to be more engaged. She saw I was shutting down and I didn't have that joy of life, spring in my step any more. One night we were going to have obligatory routine sex (which is how she made me feel)...

Thanks for your reply! My wife does not masturbate. She does play with her clit when we are having sex. She told me that she just doesn't need sex as I apparently do. Hearing her say that was a disappointment to me on so many levels. I felt inadequate to inspire her. I felt like she could...

Yes, please tell us more! I think Iahotwifeshusband will appreciate your insights.

She doesn't sound like she cares about you. She doesn't want to go to counseling. She doesn't want to do anything but hide her true feelings from you. She's clearly communicating with someone she wants to hide from you. She calls you "disgusting". She places blame on you for not asking for sex...