The end for us?

Slyrik said:
dude uou need a long sit down talk.... if you are important in her life she needs to show it if not you need to separate... cuckolding is not about excluding someone.. it is about including them in specific ways that satisfy BOTH of you.. if you dont have that.... you dont have a relationship
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We have started to have serious conversations. We both recognize how positive this has been for us as a couple and she said she recognizes how one-sided and narcissistic this has been. When we are don’t with our business today, I think we are going to have a conversation about what we both want out of this.
 
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Anonymousrob84 said:
We have started to have serious conversations. We both recognize how positive this has been for us as a couple and she said she recognizes how one-sided and narcissistic this has been. When we are don’t with our business today, I think we are going to have a conversation about what we both want out of this.
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Good to read this! Good luck!
 
If she's continuing to see her lover/bf/fwb while she is fully aware of your feeling left out, then how can she really be enjoying herself? You'd think (or at least I'd think) she would be going out of her way to find a solution. I just don't understand the double standard. The stuff you want makes her uncomfortable and she's reluctant. The way she wants what she wants makes you uncomfortable.

She's ...... to step out of her comfort zone to give you what you want. She's tried to do some of those things but her heart isn't in it and as a consequence it's not as fun for you as it could be. On the flip side she can do her thing and whether you are into or not can be overlooked. You said she's aware of the "one-sided-ness" of the current situation. Has she offered any ideas at all about a compromise?

I know that you have said you don't want to shut things down. Is that because you believe you'll never get the things you want unless she's a wife that wants to play? Ultimately though, if you're not getting anything special out of the deal then what's the difference between that and shutting things down? I truly feel sorry for the spot you're in. I really do hope something changes in your wife in a way she'll understand how important it is for her to give you what you want. She already should know that you've done that for her!
 
Anonymousrob84 said:
We have started to have serious conversations. We both recognize how positive this has been for us as a couple and she said she recognizes how one-sided and narcissistic this has been. When we are don’t with our business today, I think we are going to have a conversation about what we both want out of this.
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After some thinking and some personal revelations, this prob is the end for us. I’m just tired of feeling secondary and unnecessary and I’ve started to realize some things that hurt a lot about the situation.
 
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After some thinking and some personal revelations, this prob is the end for us. I’m just tired of feeling secondary and unnecessary and I’ve started to realize some things that hurt a lot about the situation.
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I don't doubt the hurt you're feeling! I'll bet you're ready to just blow up! When you say "the end for us" do you mean for the lifestyle or do you mean for the two of you?
 
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