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Thanks! I've had fun following your experience! It's been a long road already and you've experienced a lot!

What would be optimal is if she ALSO sought out people that would be open to your scene! Even the fact that she was considering that as a possibility would be awesome. She has to know that your chances are slim compared to hers. I have to ask, are her one on one secrets important to her? Does...

This is what I meant by "your own arrangement" .......... I can look for the situations where I am involved and she can find her own arrangement where I am not. She's not going to be looking for you. She'll be looking for herself. You make it sound like it's on you to find a guy that will be...

As you say, you're way past the mild if she's had a regular bull for 8 months or more. What did she say about your lack of participation? Did it seem of consequence to her? It would be interesting to know if she didn't give much thought or if she was genuinely concerned. So, if you're looking...

There's a lot going on here with your update. First off, is it more your idea about not having sex with your wife? You describe it as a "difficult phase". Is this like the pain your endure in running a marathon but the emotional reward of finishing is the big deal? If it's you pushing the denial...

Done right!

Three hours! That's amazing!

We're new to the RV/camper trailer life. I agree this is a fun thing to think about but like you my wife would say never also.

Do you have the avocado looking one? Do you like it better than a regular vibrator?

I love this! What are some examples of the "special" things you treat your husband to? Can you tell when your husband needs your special attention?

Is she still acting like nothing happened?

My wife knows I like "the idea" of her being a hot wife. It's in the "never gonna happen" category. There have been some upsides even though we both know it won't happen. More about that in my reply to tdog7119. My wife is vanilla also. After years of a less than satisfying sex life her vanilla...

From your story it seems that your ex was more concerned with hurting you than it was about the sex. There's a fine line in humiliation. Some things that don't mean anything to others means a lot to some. The fact that you are still sexually aroused by the facts your ex gave you is probably...

Obviously Nicole brought up having her husband more involved. It had to been a topic of their discussion away from you. There must have been "ways" the husband wants to participate that he shared with Nicole. I give you credit for creating a healthy foundation. It had to be weird to ask him...

Does this have any impact on your satisfaction? Is this an anticipated evolution? Does it signal you to expect different behaviors from each of them?