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I was obsessed with this. It was all I could think of. I had to tell her. I though she would be shocked, she kinda was. I thought she would reject the idea and it would never happen. She pushed back a little bit and agreed without too much forsing of the issue, in fact it seemed a lot easier...

That is wonderful. I initially was drawn to this by the visual of my wife in action. Its a very sensual experience and watching for me has been an utter turn on. The more she feels comfortable and is into it the better. In my experience they get more into it the more it happens. Keep talking...

A work in progress is exactly what it is. I don't try to sugar coat things as its tough at times, for both of us. She had a lot of emotional stuff happening during the boyfriend and it had her pretty jumbled for a significant period of time. We worked through it, it wasn't easy. For all intents...

I get that and appreciate it. The movement thing was funny as I was reading it I was thinking there is a movement for everything except straight white males and then add the subset of sharing their wives. I suspect it will be some time before we get our own parade lol. My neighbor friend has...

Some safe assumptions: I am a little crazy. I have a younger wife I believe to be attractive and it seems others do as well and rather than keep her for myself I have made the debatable decision to share her with other men My wife agreed to entertain my idea. Albeit with what was likely the...

Well said and very true. Bear in mind we do see a therapist still all throughout this process and if you were wondering -yes the therapist thinks we are crazy at this point. No matter what she advises it seems we do something else. I swear she is on the verge of dismissing us as we just seem to...

She is the one that found someone open to our situation initially so she might actually find someone and is open to that although more focused on the one on one. Using adult dating sites you can recruit fairly specifically according to virtually any kink. We have maintained profiles and...

Very interesting. Its kind of where we were and how we got into this. I was happy and she was satisfied but something told me she was capable of a lot more and I was limiting her.

No doubt about it. We more or less agreed it is on me to find the arrangement I want. We will both have "recruiting" functions but I will focus on the me/her/person of interest where she might find that but is more or less focused on the her/person of interest. Its not even a gray area, we have...

I appreciate your input and it is great to hear from a woman's perspective. Well, I agree things have gotten off track. Where we started as a monogamous couple and then began to play in the stag/vixen realm is where my comfort level was ideally. I always intended to stay part of the sex life of...

Yes, I am not only free to find a guy open to me participating, its the only way I am bringing one forward in fact. We learned at the very beginning, she is way better at picking up dudes than I am lol so she will be able to find her own situation fairly easily, especially considering her...

So that is a tough one to answer exactly. When we discovered that she had a friend already living the hotwife lifestyle it sparked interest on both our parts as we were certainly not there but had had some MFM encounter experience certainly with what was her boyfriend at the time. We were both...

My wife's trip to France was a bit less mystery. Her boyfriend/lover at the time, had a work trip going and she asked if she could go and went with him

For the last 8 months my wife has been having one on one sex with a bull exclusively. This phase has been very difficult for me as we have not had traditional sex for the entire 7 months. I do have intimacy and a form of sex. It consists primarily of her recounting her encounter while I...

That is interesting that it was his avenue in to ...... with other women. That was not my intent and although it is an option it is not one I have chosen to exercise. My wife did encourage it a couple of times but I am not really open to it at least currently. Really, it was never my intent to...

A friend of her got divorced and starting dating a really abrasive cocky guy who was apparently large and good in bed, at least that is what she had told us a zillion times so in the interest of getting our feet wet we considered him as an option. It was a one time and done.

Never in a million years would I think it would take anything more than saying yes to the first guy that asks but it isn't that easy. If we go out and I leave to get drinks or use restroom etc there will be a guy talking to my wife sure as the day is long. Now if she asked him to go home with...

You hit some of the exact speedbumps we did. We spent years in monogamy where love and sex were intertwined then "out of the blue" (not really as it had been on my mind for years) I hit her with my fantasy of watching her in a threesome with two other men. Of course she pushed back at first but...

There is a lot at play here. As someone in this type of relationship I would suggest open communication from the beginning. Trying to fool her into doing it can backfire and cause huge problems. Take some time and plan a discussion and lay out how you have been feeling and what your desired...

I am not saying our approach was the right one, in fact we made several mistakes. We thought that involving a friend vs a stranger or actual bull (didn't know any at the time) was a way to test the waters. It was a mistake, it made things awkward as it did not work out. We tried another friend...