Back to the ghosting thing I don’t know if I had replied back to this . But all is good with the wife’s bill just met with him this last Friday and had a great time !
Maybe try asking her how about first few times that you’re at least there to make sure she is safe also you are really turned on by watching. It will work out
One of the times I was watching my wife I got super excited I was wearing light brown shorts and left a huge cum stain on them looked like I spilled cup of water on my lap…