At this point I really don't know what to think. Doesn't make any sense to us
Common for bulls to ghost
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I discovered that too, but we prefer not to know, really, because the event itself is drama enough.
And, for us, expensive, because I've usually rented a room for it.
I would not be happy if we rented a room expecting a good looking fun guy to show up but then he's a no-show.
We've never found a guy on line and agreed to meet up. Reading negative stories on here makes it sound pretty sketch.
We look forward to our friend visiting. I can't imagine the disappointment when he dosent show up.
We've never found a guy on line and agreed to meet up. Reading negative stories on here makes it sound pretty sketch.
We look forward to our friend visiting. I can't imagine the disappointment when he dosent show up.
We have ate tenative date next week, we met him on here more than 2 years ago. We kept in touch and the idea of it has elevated our sex lives. We’ve never been with anyone else in 30 plus years and hoping the vibe agrees when we meet. Fingers crossed this one turns out good!
Yes, we've also experienced ghosting from some bulls and like someone else here commented, our regular bulls who are married seem more reliable than the single guys. I guess they single guys just have more options or married guys seem to enjoy the emotional connections of repeated coupling with another woman, I don't know.
Some bulls are selfish and want a different wife every time. Don't read too much into it. We had one who seemed great and chatted all the time about getting the wife off. When he arrived he was fine but during and after he only wanted to blow his load. The first load went in a condom which he tipped out on the bathroom floor. I went to fix drinks and during this he slighly removed the condom and came up her. He left really quickly. We didn't realise what he'd done until it was too late. He also said he was single but his wife contacted us obviously not happy. My wife explained how it went and ended up friends with his wife. She obviously dumped him as he'd done this several times.
Don't be put off though as we met a real kind, warm fun attentive bloke months after. We Don't play anymore but we're still friends years later.
You should try a few friends, singles or couples. Friends always turn up, you know they won't expose you and it increases the frill when your out with them and friends who don't know you're all banging each other.
Happens all the time! Fantasy online dreamers who don't follow through, some show up once or twice and then disappear. I will say my wife currently has 5 regulars who do chat with her frequently and continue to stop in and have fun with her so it's not all bad. Just common to be ghosted!
Back to the ghosting thing I don’t know if I had replied back to this . But all is good with the wife’s bill just met with him this last Friday and had a great time !
If I ever become the bull of a couple, I won't ghost them without a reason. I'd talk to them and let them know if it's not working out.
Now I just need to find a local couple to be a bull for.
Now I just need to find a local couple to be a bull for.
Well back to searching again… yet another guy who starting to seem a bit shady to me . We met with him for some drinks we all got along. But have tried to text him and text are hit and miss where he says he’s not getting them.. technology is way more advanced now I don’t believe him I think he may be using a texting app.. what does everyone else think ??
We didn't experienced any blunt ghosting yet.
Some men got their life's circunstances changing fast and that seems to be the main reason for stopping to come by. But in those cases there are conversations and amicable endings, so the door remains opened for future meetings perhaps.
There is, of course, the collector type-of-guy. It is usually a man which is doing it good with many women that just keeps meeting and tasting more "flesh", so he stays around for 3 or 4 times and is done. We met a few of this type.
Some men got their life's circunstances changing fast and that seems to be the main reason for stopping to come by. But in those cases there are conversations and amicable endings, so the door remains opened for future meetings perhaps.
There is, of course, the collector type-of-guy. It is usually a man which is doing it good with many women that just keeps meeting and tasting more "flesh", so he stays around for 3 or 4 times and is done. We met a few of this type.
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